So many women think sex is a chore for them, and they always complaint that sex is only one thing in male brain, and every male is an animal who only can use his dick to think. As a woman, I want to clarify for the men here. Do not blame men, and ejaculation is just a habit from childhood by instinct.
I can't imagine that a woman can get an orgasm from a man during her marriage sex life, if she never gets an orgasm by masturbation in her teenage. Orgasm is a habit you only can get it by yourself, whatever a man or a woman. I think it is so hard to change this awkward condition about female orgasm, if a woman doesn’t have that habit from her teenage. I think every man has his first orgasm definitely from masturbation by himself. When he grows up, he finds some girls can cause him to this habit, that is why a man want have a sex with a woman, and his final purpose is the orgasm through the girl who can hook him up, but not the girl herself. When a man wants to take action in this habit, he just needs a tool, but the tool can be different, hand, mouth, vagina, anus, whatever, it really doesn’t matter. That makes gays as the same. A gay has the same habit, but this habit he wants to keep only can be caused by some gays. People gay or straight essentially have no difference. I don’t think a man can get an orgasm through other people, if he never has orgasm by himself at all.
If women want real freedom and liberation in this male-dominated world, we must cultivate this habit from childhood. Only you can have this orgasm habit, and you can get this habit from others, whatever from a woman or a man.
When a man wants to ejaculation, he don't even take off his pants, and just need to take his dick out, but I want to tell every one loudly here getting orgasm is easier for a woman than a man, she doesn't need to take off her pants and even doesn't need to take off anything to get an orgasm.