break the mystery of female orgasm

The last Fig leaf - there are different types of female orgasm

2012-02-09T04:33:00.000-08:00

I have been giving everyone the truth about female orgasm, but nobody believed me. I have contacted some professors who claim they use the fMRI to study brain during female orgasm.

Unfortunately, it is hard to fill a cup which is already full. I told her I want be a volunteer to reveal the mystery of female orgasm, but the answer she gave me is there are different types of female orgasm. I really think it is funny and ridiculous, why did you research female orgasm, if you think female orgasm can’t be sure as a certain thing, and you can’t give a conclusion about female orgasm. What is the significance of your study? People are never going to know the crab’s taste, if they didn’t even eat any crab. How does a woman study the subject of female orgasm, if she has not experienced a real female orgasm? Whoever was not qualified to define taste of crab, if she didn’t really have experience of eating a real crab. So-called different types of female orgasm what they think do not even a real crab, so the results they got are just from their imagination, and how can they get the right results.

I think we should figure out first what is the female orgasm. Female orgasm only have one pattern as same as males. I can prove that women also have about the last 10 seconds of shudder of climax as same as males, and after every female orgasm women also have refractory period, so women never can have multiple orgasms.

Same sex reproduction, possible?

2012-01-17T08:07:00.000-08:00

At present, there are a number of research labs that are focused on the creation of cells that are genetically male but have been produced from eggs. Alternately, they are also trying to create sperm from female eggs. If the research proves to work, the consequences are particularly important for gay and lesbian couples that wish to have children. The idea is an extremely controversial one that mixes in with politics, religion and ethics. The experiment was widely reported in the news but has not yet been published or successfully replicated, the work does still show that potential for same-sex reproduction exists, and it will likely spur further research in this area. The reproductive revolution is really already in progress.

    Is same-sex reproduction really possible? I think we should figure out the nature of reproduction first. Theoretically, the human reproduction just requires the fusion of two haploid gametes, and then cell development into a baby under certain conditions. I will elaborate the possibility of same-sex reproduction from two different thinking.

1, the thinking of Surrogacy

There are 2 types of surrogate mother: complete surrogacy and partial surrogacy. Partial surrogacy is not true surrogacy, and what I mention here is complete surrogacy.

Complete surrogacy: to use consignor couple’s sperm and eggs, implanting into surrogate mother’s womb then through artificial insemination till the birth of baby. In the whole process, surrogate mother only rents out uterus, no any gene relationship between baby and her.

    When we talked about reproduction before meiosis was discovered and described for the first time in sea urchin eggs in 1876 by the German biologist Oscar Hertwig, people always linked a man, a woman and sex together. On July 25, 1978, Louise Joy Brown, after the world's first successful "test-tube" baby was born in Great Britain, people realized reproduction doesn’t require a man, a woman and sexual behavior between them , but only need sperm, egg and uterus. In this process, sperm replaced a man, and a woman divided into an egg and uterus (as carrier), and sex can be abandoned. We can follow this line of thought and continue to dig deep. The nature of sperm is human haploid nucleus, and an egg can be divided into a haploid nucleus and a shell with enough nutrients and energy but without any nucleus. In my view, the egg without nucleus is another form of surrogate mother, one is considered from a macro perspective, and the other is from a micro perspective, and both of them share the same nature and just provide a place and nutrients and energy required for the cell development. I think, maybe one day, the shell and uterus both can be replaced by some complete set of reproduction mechanisms, and this reproductive system can total replace all certain conditions for a child. In that time, parents just only need to provide two gamete nuclei of them, and female polar body also can be used as same as egg.

2, the thinking of Cloning Techniques

Cloning Techniques: Nuclear transfer involves transferring the nucleus from a diploid cell to an unfertilised egg cell from which the maternal nucleus has been removed. The egg and donor cell are normally fused and the 'reconstructed embryo' activated by a short electrical pulse, and allowed to develop into an embryo, and the embryo is then implanted into a surrogate.

    We can also use this thinking of cloning techniques on the same-sex reproduction. In this method, two haploid nuclei from two different people are injected into an egg that has had its nucleus removed, and then make them fused three together using some specific method or stimulus in order to develop into an embryo, and the embryo is then implanted into a surrogate. This method is really possible in theory, but so far, we just don’t find a suitable reproductive system to replace an egg and uterus, we still should use a woman as a surrogate. In this whole process, we use the two gametes from two people after meiosis themselves, it means recombination occurs freely and allele exchange freely, the offspring is also have diversity. We just control the fusion of two nucleuses, but not the production of gametes, in order to avoid the trouble with some kinds of trigger stem cell into spermatogonia or oogonia and then force them meiosis.

    I know same sex reproduction is a complicated one in terms of political, religious and ethical controversy, but to have descendants keeping parents genes continue to exist in the world should be the common consensus for the human being, whatever straight or gay couples, they do also enjoy the same human rights. Except these artificial resistances, same sex reproduction also has a fatal gender problem. Two female gametes fusion, of course, only can have a baby girl. But what about two male gametes fusion? There are 3 kinds of situations after that. Baby girl is 25 percents, baby boy is 50 percents, and another baby (I don’t know how to call) is 25 percents. What if the YY can survive? Is YY super manly? I don’t know. I think this would be a really interesting subject.

    As technology advances, i think it is not difficult for human being to do same sex reproduction. In my opinion, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, without affecting the others.

God is not a girl

2012-01-12T04:38:00.000-08:00

I love the song - God is a girl by Groove Coverage, but I am afraid, from the perspective of human reproduction, God is actually not a girl. The male orgasm has never been difficult to understand in the context of its undeniable role in reproduction. But even now, in the 21^st century, we are unable to give a reasonable explanation to the role of female orgasm in human reproduction. There is so little research done on female orgasm, it is like a taboo subject. Apparently, the male orgasm plays a vital biological function in reproduction, but women can conceive whether or not they orgasm. Where does it fit into evolutionary theory? What is the purpose of the female orgasm?

According to some investigations, lots of women have never experienced orgasm, but a large number of them still become pregnant. Over the last four decades, scientists have come up with a variety of theories, one theory holds that having an orgasm increases a woman’s desire for future sexual encounters which would then lead them to reproduce, and some scientists think that orgasm helped a woman to retain sperm in her uterus by creating a kind of vacuum. This can increase her chances of conception. Some believe that the purpose of the female orgasm is to give her pleasure-period and more scientist think a woman’s orgasm has no evolutionary purpose at all.

The key to all the problems is people haven't solved the mystery of female orgasm yet. Frankly speaking, I don’t know what is going to happen, after when women know the fact of female orgasm. For many years, the mystery of female orgasm was like Pandora's Box without opened, and it means all women have been deceived as ascetic, but taken the huge responsibility of human reproduction for all time. What are women going to choose, when the Pandora's Box of female orgasm completely open, and they know the pattern of vaginal puncture can never bring an orgasm at all, because the vaginal has no that function. Do women still want to be the Holy Land and continue to fulfill the moral obligations of human reproduction, or courage to say "No" to male orgasm, when they know men and women can never have orgasms together, because of the repulsion of every two orgasm, after every two orgasms, the body must have refractory period. It means only one can orgasm at the same time.

Now, I start to doubt the Darwin's survival of the fittest and it is really suitable for humans? If one day we really extinct, whether we are not suited to nature any longer and nature select our extinction, or we say "No" to ourselves. Will the women’s awakening stop human reproduction? I think human reproduction is needed, but not at the expense of women's rights for the price. We should figure out love is love, sex is sex, child is child, marriage is marriage. Maybe one day reproduction also can happen between same-sex, after all it is theoretically feasible.

I am really a troublemaker. The world is upside down, and only I stay awake, so I am upside down in the eyes of the worlds. I hope the biggest mystery can be opened to the public as soon as possible.

Give my best wishes to Johnny Weir and Victor Voronov

2012-01-05T05:08:00.000-08:00

Recently, I was so happy for them to see a news Figure skating champion Johnny Weir and his boyfriend Victor Voronov have tied the knot and they married in a civil ceremony in New York City. I like Johnny very much on Figure skating stage, even though I am not good at Figure skating.

People have been inclined to challenge the old tradition more and more for the true love these years. I think nothing can stop two people in love together, whatever race, gender or age or any else. In my opinion, we should figure out the ultimate purpose why we get into a marriage, and then figure out the relationship among love, sex, marriage and children.

There will be more and more countries recognize same-sex marriage legalized, after when I can completely make the facts of female orgasm to the public. Maybe Johnny and Victor can have their own children, after when people can make the same-sex reproduction. I think it is not going to take long time, after all, in theory same-sex reproduction is absolutely possible.

Everything is going to be forward! Here I wish all lovers finally get married.

A country's degree of civilization and democracy depends on women's status.

2012-01-01T08:19:00.000-08:00

The more countries developed well, the more they paid attention on women's rights and gender equality, and the more countries underdeveloped, the more gender inequality. Some countries and regions with high degree of democracy and civilization in western, the foundation of these countries is universal values, human rights, democracy and freedom, and females there can have the same basic rights as same as males at least in the Constitution, whatever in political, economic or marriage. They can go out to work and engage in any industry they interested in, some even Prime minister or Secretary of State. Women also can choose marriage or divorce on their own, and some even can legally get into same-sex marriage. Now the world is still a men-dominate, and we need to keep working hard to fight for gender equality.

       However, compared with the Western democracies, there are other two systems, one is a theocracy system commonly in Arab region. These countries are very rich, because the oil, but money is controlled in a few authoritarian monopolies. Women there have low social status, and a man can marry four wives or even more in some areas. Women have no right to work, and no right to choose marriage, even can’t go out without her husband or father accompany. Woman is man's private property, and after her husband's death, his family male members can inherit their property (including his wife). Such this country actually wants to get into the ranks of developed countries, just depending on their single oil exports. I wonder to know urgently what they are going to do after the oil depletion in decades or a century. In my opinion, the only thing they can do is to build extremely luxurious skyscrapers one after another, in order to find the feeling of standing on top of the world. Do not they know that so many developed countries have already abandoned skyscrapers because of safety and cost issues? I only sigh “they are really too rich”. Here I give my best wishes to Libya women, and I hope they are not out of the frying pan, into the fire. After all under Gaddafi's control, Libya reluctantly maintains monogamy, but almost into polygamy after just liberated.

     There is another system mostly in Asia – Single-party states,and some countries are even in family hereditary system. After grandfather death, then father, now son, and grandson in future,they treat the entire country as their private property. What made me angry and annoyed was United Nations General Assembly actually held a few moments of silence for such a dictator who only use lies and violence to rule his nations. Ijust can’t help myself to sigh” how big the woods is in United Nations, what birds are.” Due to the nature of single-party state system, such states have reached a point of irrevocable corruption, and it has been incurable. The whole country all moral turpitude and people laugh for poverty but not for prostitution. As a male, if he wants to survive in this system, he has to move closer to the Single-party and authority, so there are a large number of young people joined the Single-party, but no one really believe in Communism anymore, and the only purpose to join the party is to get a good job or an officer easily, and then has the opportunity to tyrannically abuse his power to bully tragic people than himself. Although monogamy also recognized and permitted in these countries, women there seem have more rights and equality than theocracy women, she can go out to have a work and is free to choose marriage on her own, but this is only superficial, the truth is not that case. The fact is as a vulnerable group of women in this system, she must need to pay more prices, if she wants to survive. Women there are even not qualified to talk about “love”, because in order to survive and live, she must find a man who is beneficial to keep her life better. These countries generally have gender preference seriously and prefer for boys over girls. The reason is simple. First, I have to admit that now the earth still in the patriarchal society, and males have vast majority of primary authority in social organization. In a democratic and civilized country, as a human, females can have a basic life-support as males, but they can’t get them easily in totalitarian state, because of the ubiquitous corruption, women should pay some price to get the basic life-support. Pay what price? You can guess. Bingo! The sex trade.After all survival is the first task than a sense of security, a sense of belonging,dignity or self-realization.

      Many western countries condemned the one-child policy in a country, and they said it was the persecution of human rights. I don’t agree with westerners this time. I can use a diplomatic language to explain “you do not understand our country conditions, you don’t understand people there.” If you want a thorough analysis of this problem, see following sentence.

“The best way to understand behavior is to look at the causes of an action and its consequences.” by B. F. Skinner.

      We should figure out why they build this one-child policy. The reason is easy. They have to, because there are too many people there. We continue to ask deeply why there are many people in their country. That is because female there tend to reproduce more. Go on ask why female there tend to reproduce more. This answer is the key to all problems. You will make a big mistake, if you think the reason that woman get into a marriage in totalitarian states is for love. The Westerners don’t understand that the children are not love crystallization, but just tools that woman can use to control the man, threaten divorce and get best financial decisions, when a society can’t give a sense of security to women. Poor women need children as a bargaining chip to protect themselves. There is the other reason, in order to make them in advantageous position, people need a way to be strengthened in a without independent judiciary country, and of course, nothing is more reliable than the blood. I dare to conclude that the population rapidly reaches 2 billion in a few decades, depending on current national accomplishment, if the government cancels the one-child policy now. Women there have completely despaired of their selves and are totally lost in such a society, and only put all their hopes and energy in their children. “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” is the product of desperation.

      Finally, I just want to say all human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. Men, think about what if you are a woman next life, you want be treated as inequality?

Here, give my best wishes to all women of the world.

Happy New Year! 2012!

I am the child in the story of Emperor's New Clothes

2011-12-22T05:02:00.000-08:00

Recently, I saw some news that 2011 Society for Neuroscience annual meeting in Washington, D.C., Lead author Barry Komisaruk, professor of psychology at Rutgers University, imaged brain activity in several women who were able to masturbate to orgasm in the decidedly unsexy atmosphere of a functional MRI machine. The scientists claim that the only thing that a woman’s orgasm can be compared to, at a brain level, is the epileptic seizure. Not only did they claim this, but they have proven the similarity through a test which consisted in scanning the brain during the actual orgasm. In short, Professor Komisaruk believes he has solved mystery of female orgasm and claims that the female orgasm can be compared to the epileptic seizure.

I just felt very ridiculous, when I saw this news. I can’t help myself to ask one question to them “why don’t you use MRI to research male orgasm? I don’t know the feasibility of their testing methodology, but I know this conclusion the got have No Value at all. This is just a farce in my eyes like the reality version of the story of emperor’s new clothes. I just want to say all so-called experts are all deceived by fake female orgasm and that female status like epileptic seizure is not real female orgasm at all.

Why do a group of the world's top scientists believe such a lie? The key point is that women themselves are not clear what the real female orgasm is. They always think that urinary incontinence and some water (urine) gushed from the urethra is real female orgasm. This is a huge mistake. Women have been in pursuit of the so-called mysterious female orgasm for so many years, but until now female orgasm is still in dark. In fact, women and men have the same orgasm pattern and process, and female body also has a system that keeps it from being able to orgasm and urinate at the same time, and female also require time to switch back to urine mode after orgasm mode, and after every orgasm women also have refractory period. I think unless women themselves experience that feeling personally, otherwise they have very difficulty to believe what I said.

Poor woman is like the same poor emperor in the story of Emperor's New Clothes. They are asked to have orgasm, and asked to be normal. Such a request leads to one result―female totally confused, and they don’t know what the real female orgasm is and what exactly feeling they are supposed to feel. They mistakenly believe the feeling like urinary incontinence by men’s puncture or urine gushed from the urethra is female orgasm, because that feeling during sex puncture is indeed special and really different from other feeling in daily life. The key logic is here, X (a special feeling) is not A (common feeling), but it doesn’t mean X (a special feeling) is B (a real orgasm). I think no one would deny this logic. Woman is like the emperor in the story. The emperor is not sure whether he is wearing clothes or not, but when every body says “How beautifully they fit. What material! What colours! It is a gorgeous suit! ”, the emperor is confused too, and acts like he really has clothes on, and wishes no one can notice he could see nothing and he is not stupid and he is fit to be emperor. In fact, “but he has nothing on!” said a little child at last. Women are also afraid of other people think they are abnormal and not fit for women, before they really figure out what the orgasm is, they could not wait to announce “I can get female orgasm”, and they are indeed addicted to acting more and more like they really have orgasm.

I think it is not exaggerated to use the story of emperor's new clothes as metaphor to women female orgasm. All people have high expectation to female orgasm, and everyone wants to know how crazy and magical female orgasm. They focus all attention on hypocritical surface of so-called female orgasm, but all ignore the nature of the orgasm, like people ignore the nature role of clothes is keeping "warm". The only purpose of orgasm is to release your body and spirit, and is not concerned about how others look at your orgasm. Women seem must have orgasm, or your husband is not doing well. The main reason women can’t get orgasm is on their own self. Women generally too care about what others say and whether men think they have orgasm, but not orgasm itself. Women only care men’s behavior, and can’t focus all attention to the sex and themselves. I think concentration on self-body is the first thing if women want to learn orgasm.

I hope this farce at Society for Neuroscience annual meeting in Washington, D.C. can stop, please stop grandstanding. I will expose you as the child in the story of Emperor's New Clothes― “but he has nothing on!”.

I like a senior quote by Jane Rizzoli in Rizzoli & Isles TV show in S213.

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

Give this sentence to all women of the world, and we encourage each other along.

Physical satisfaction and emotional satisfaction

2011-12-14T04:25:00.000-08:00

Some sexual experts say the difference between the two genders is that, men need sex for love and women need love for sex. This sentence indeed got the plight women are facing. Many sexual experts try to find the differences between men and women to give a reasonable explanation for sex attitudes. In Non-linear, Basson model clarifies that the goal of sexual activity for women is not necessarily orgasm but rather personal satisfaction, which can manifest as physical satisfaction (orgasm) and/ or emotional satisfaction (a feeling of intimacy and connection with a partner). She proposed two important concepts: physical satisfaction and emotional satisfaction, but she seriously underestimated the natural and important function of physical satisfaction (orgasm) for women, and exaggerated the function of emotional satisfaction for women, and tried to mislead the female physical satisfaction can be replaced by emotional satisfaction. Dr. Basson doesn’t realize that physical satisfaction (orgasm) is also irreplaceable for women as same as men.

Here, I emphasize the importance of physical satisfaction, but it doesn’t mean I think emotional satisfaction is unimportant. Both concepts are totally different from each other, and the only common thing about these two is that both are feelings for a person. Physical satisfaction purely satisfies one’s physical desires while emotional satisfaction is solely meant to satisfy one’s spiritual.

Physical satisfaction (orgasm) is a selfish act as it only pleases a person’s physical desire usually associated to man’s sexual demands. In fact, this is not only a man needs, but also a woman needs. The physical desire is an unavoidable natural force which usually related to sexual release. You can get physical satisfaction through touch someone or fantasy for someone in an obscene manner. The last purpose is only an orgasm to release your body, and it is like the function of food for human, and I think you don’t pick the food, when you are hungry and urgent to eat.

Emotional satisfaction (a feeling of intimacy and connection with a partner) is an unselfish act of giving affection to a person. It satisfies a person’s emotional and spiritual needs and commonly used to express an act of unselfishness and affection. I think you must want to have a connection with him/her, if you are in love with someone. There is normal emotional desire.

Physical satisfaction is simple and emotional satisfaction is complex; physical satisfaction is basic level and emotional satisfaction is high level. That is why men want some affairs with some women they even unknown, though the results they got are same. Human wants get emotional satisfaction after get physical satisfaction easily. It is also like you must want to have a little change for your food, if you have choice. I think so far the woman is not qualified to talk about emotional satisfaction. It doesn’t mean I ignore women's emotions, I just don’t want women confuse the both concepts. I just think the first job for women is figure out what the physical satisfaction, and then talk about emotional satisfaction, or you will live in the story of Emperor's New Clothes forever.

Love is love, sex is sex. You should love the soul, when you are in love with someone. You just need a hearty orgasm to release yourself, when you have a physical sexual desire.

Low sex drive in women can be explained by Pavlov’s Classical Conditioning and Skinner’s Operant Conditioning

2011-12-06T04:38:00.000-08:00

Almost all husbands are complaining that their wives have the low sexual drive and never initiate sex with them, and of course they can’t get enough satisfactory from their wives. The low sex drive in women becomes the main excuse for men’s cheating, and all women are also stuck by this problem.

Many explanations have been given to this problem. Some experts say women were born with low sex drive, and some say women don’t deserve the high sex desire, because the value of women existence is reproduction, and some say woman's desire for sex is based on a complex interaction of many components affecting intimacy, including physical well-being, emotional well-being, experiences, beliefs, lifestyle and current relationship. A wide range of illnesses, physical changes, medications and hormone levels may change desire for sex. According to sex educator and researcher Beverly Whipple in her circular Model proposed in 1997, she demonstrated that pleasant and satisfying sexual experiences may have a reinforcing effect on a woman, leading to the seduction phase of the next sexual experience. If, during reflection, the sexual experience did not provide pleasure and satisfaction, the woman may not have a desire to repeat the experience. Hers view itself is not wrong, but unfortunately the main point is women not only never got real satisfaction, but also they have no idea what they really need. Whipple’ theory gives me some inspiration about how to describe human sex desire accurately.

Here, I propose a new view based on Pavlov’s classical conditioning and Skinner’s operant conditioning to give people a real reason for women’ low sex drive.

Key concepts of Pavlov’s classical conditioning

Unconditioned Stimulus (UCS): A stimulus that elicits a response without conditioning. In Pavlov’s typical research this UCS was food.

Unconditioned Response (UCR): Automatic response elicited by the unconditioned stimulus (UCS). In Pavlov’s typical research this UCR was salivation.

Conditioned Stimulus (CS): A neutral stimulus that when paired with an unconditioned stimulus (UCS) elicits a similar response. In Pavlov’s typical research this CS was bell.

Conditioned Response (CR): A response that is learned by pairing the originally neutral conditioned stimulus (CS) with the unconditioned stimulus (UCS). In Pavlov’s typical research this CR was dog would salivate at the bell.

All his researches were based on unconditioned stimulus can elicit unconditioned response. Chart 1 is the core of Pavlov’s theory.

Pavlov’s study is forward extension, depended on the chart 1. He tried to find whether something else like a neutral stimulus can elicit an unconditioned response except an unconditioned stimulus (ie 2). Before paired with an unconditioned stimulus, a conditioned stimulus can’t elicit an unconditioned response (ie 3).

Before learning

During learning

Higher order conditioning

Complex higher order conditioning

After learning

In classical conditioning, Pavlov modified or replaced the stimulus that leads to a given response by a different stimulus, and he described an involuntary or automatic response to a stimulus. But important thing is Pavlov didn’t do a test - what would happen, if the dog didn’t get the food after every time it already salivated. In other words, the classical conditioning theory ignored the research about “reward” after dog had UCR. This problem is the key to explain why women suffer Low sex drive. I guess here the UCR is not extinct, whatever dog get a reward or not, and it means dog still have salivation, even though can’t get food every time. The reason I will explain later.

Skinner’s study is backwards extension after a response (ie 8). In his “Skinner Box”, he found positive reinforcement strengthens a behavior by providing a consequence an individual finds rewarding. The consequence of receiving food if rats pressed the lever ensured that they would repeat the action again and again (ie 9). When a particular stimulus-response pattern is reinforced (rewarded), the individual is conditioned to respond. Reinforcement is the key element in Skinner’s operant conditioning. Operant conditioning is distinguished from classical conditioning in that operant conditioning deals with the modification of "voluntary behavior" or operant behavior.

In my own opinion, the combination of these two theories just can explain why women suffer low sex drive. Let me analyze the difference of sex drive between male and female one by one, and why men have higher sex drive than women. The main problem is in the women, not in men.

Male sexual cycle is a complete closed (ie 10). UCS is genital touch directly, and UCR is penis erection. Unconditioned response (erection) elicited by the unconditioned stimulus (genital touch directly). The only reward male can get is orgasm. Because man can get an orgasm as reward during a sex action like rat gets food after press the lever, they have high desire to repeat the action again and again. Positive reinforcement strengthens male sex action by providing a consequence man finds rewarding. That is the key why men have so high sex desire. After repeat this closed cycle again and again, some conditioned stimulus like porn or some neutral stimulus even not related to sex at all successfully paired with an unconditioned stimulus (genital touch directly) also can elicits a similar response(penis erection). That is why so many things can hook men up and men can think about sex every 15 seconds. That is a normal phenomenon.

Why do women have low sex drive? Unfortunately, female sexual cycle is not closed (ie 11). In other words, women can’t get orgasm as reward is the key why women suffer low sex drive. After time and time again, punishment will weaken or eliminate female sex action by not providing a consequence as male’ orgasm. As time goes by, women think sex is a chore and have no interest in it. Because female sexual cycle is not closed, women never get a normal physical satisfaction at all, no more talking about some other neutral stimulus, of course the consequence is behavior which is not reinforced tends to die out or be extinguished.

Skinner’s theory said when using consequences to modify a response, the effectiveness of a consequence can be increased or decreased by various factors. These factors can apply to either reinforcing or punishing consequences. I think this view just can explain some different phenomena between men and women.

1 Satiation/Deprivation: The effectiveness of a consequence will be reduced if the individual's "appetite" for that source of stimulation has been satisfied. This point just can explain why men will lose interest in sex immediately, when after they get an orgasm, because men’s “appetite” for sex has already been satisfied like the dog is not going to eat anymore if already full, until it gets hungry again.

2 Immediacy: After a response, how immediately a consequence is then felt determines the effectiveness of the consequence. More immediate feedback will be more effective than less immediate feedback. This point just can explain why men don’t want be distracted after he already have an erection, because long time interval maybe will make the response failure. A proverb: strike while the iron is hot.

3 Contingency: If a consequence does not contingently (reliably, or consistently) follow the target response, its effectiveness upon the response is reduced. This point just can explain why men always are players and like the new and loathe the old, because the same sex with same people will reduce their desire for sex.

4 Size: This is a "cost-benefit" determinant of whether a consequence will be effective. If the size, or amount, of the consequence is large enough to be worth the effort, the consequence will be more effective upon the behavior. These opposing expected consequences (reinforcing and punishing) balance out will determine whether the behavior is performed or not. This point can explain why men always work hard in sex, not for the women, for themselves. Because the consequence of a sex (orgasm) is men’s core interests, of course they think it is large enough to be worth exhaustion. This point is also why women offer low sex drive, because they can’t find the core benefit (orgasm) during a sex, of course they don’t want to waste any time, any strength or any energy to do such a thing. The pursuit of orgasm is a subjective skeletal muscle activity and required to pay the cost, not like the passive salivary secretion

Use Thorndike’s law of effect to explain why such difference sex desire and drive between female and male, and why difficult woman have orgasm.

Responses that produce a satisfying effect in a particular situation become more likely to occur again in that situation.

Responses that produce a discomforting effect become less likely to occur again in that situation.

Now I am going to answer previous question- I didn’t do any experiments on dog, but I think dog still have salivation until dead, even though can’t get any food. It is because unconditioned response (UCR) elicited by the unconditioned stimulus (UCS) is controlled by animals born nervous system, not by animals themselves. The animal's physiological instinct response must exist, until the nervous system is cut off. (Like sham feeding in Pavlov’s experiment, Pavlov cut off the dog’s fibers of the vagus nerve, and then secretion of gastric juice stopped). Women’s problem is similar to the dog’s. Women also have the UCR (like arousal, vaginal moistness and clitoris shaft erection), when they passively accept the genital stimulus directly, even though they can’t get the reward (orgasm). Women are unwilling to accept the stimulation subjectively, no more talking about the foundation between UCR and CR, because all their efforts for sex are futile.

I know Skinner’s theory had his own disadvantage, he did not consider the animal's emotional factors. If a man loves his wife so much, maybe he doesn’t have a sex with other woman who already hooks him up, but it doesn’t mean the man don’t want to, it just means he can’t. I think if we add too much emotional factors to the research on human’s basic activities, it will make the situation too complicated. In my opinion, this is unnecessary. Any complex situation is superimposed by a series of simple cases, but just the composite process is complex, mutual restraint and recycled. It may confuse people to know the nature of complex things.

Finally, I agree with one of Skinner’s views very much - The best way to understand behavior is to look at the causes of an action and its consequences.

A New Female Sexual Response Model

2011-11-19T20:15:00.000-08:00

Recently, a friend of mine from Portugal gave me some advice about my new theory of female orgasm, although what he said are more platitude and useless, but he indeed gave me some clues about female sexual response model. I check on the internet for all about female sexual response models, and there are three in all.

1, Linear Model by Masters and Johnson in 1966

2, Circular Model by Beverly Whipple and Brash-McGreer in 1997

3, Non-linear Model by Basson R

I analyze advantages and disadvantages of these three models one by one and finally construct my own female sexual response model. Excuse my rudeness, and I don't mean to offend anyone, just for the sake of discussion.

Linear Model (Masters and Johnson in 1966)

Advantages: They proposed this Linear model of sexual response for both men and women and assumed that men and women have similar sexual responses. Their assumption is absolute correct, but unfortunately the later generations completely deny this and consequently make the female orgasm as a mystery for decades.

Disadvantages: 1, Linear Model denies the uniqueness of female orgasm and believes the different responses different women may have or an individual woman may have on different occasions. I wonder how they get such a conclusion, since they already assume that men and women have similar sexual responses. Do they also believe that an individual man may have different sexual response pattern? The conclusion they got to the assumption they proposed is a paradox.

2, they think orgasm for women is an occasional occurrence and Beverly Whipple helps them to explain that women may not even experience all of the phases-for example, they may move from sexual arousal to orgasm and satisfaction without experiencing sexual desire, or they can experience desire, arousal, and satisfaction but not orgasm. This explanation is a bigger mistake. Female sexual response if without orgasm is not complete. Women are just as a sex tool, if they can’t experience orgasm during every sex. Does she believe that orgasm for men can also be an occasional occurrence? Nonsense!!!

3, this model is an ideal model, and don't consider the environmental factors, so Masters and Johnson don't add the concept of distraction and circulation to this model.

4, The Refractory period is not reflected on the curve. Of course they never expect that female also have refractory period. They didn’t mention the repulsion between two orgasms, no matter in one person, or in two persons. A person can not get two orgasms at the same time, and two persons can’t get their own orgasms from each other at the same time.

Circular Model (Beverly Whipple and Brash-McGreer in 1997)

Advantages: They add the concept of circulation to the model.

Disadvantages: Circulation of this model shows how pleasure and satisfaction during one sexual experience can lead to the seduction phase of the next sexual experience. This Sentence itself is not wrong, but this circulation is built on a wrong foundation, which considers women can get multiple orgasms during one intercourse. This is the biggest mistake. Only a complete sexual experience with orgasm can lead women to the next sexual desire, of course must after refractory period. Women never have the ability to get multiple orgasms, and Beverly’ wrong view mislead people to a wrong direction.

Non-linear Model (Basson R)

Advantages: Except the circulation, this model proposes other two important concepts: physical satisfaction (orgasm) and emotional satisfaction (a feeling of intimacy and connection with a partner).

Disadvantages: Basson clarifies that the goal of sexual activity for women is not necessarily orgasm but rather personal satisfaction. His argument completely strangles the importance of orgasm and overestimates emotional satisfaction and intimacy during sexual life for women. He seriously ignores physical satisfaction (orgasm) is also irreplaceable for women as same as men. I want to ask all males: do you think intimacy can replace orgasm in your sex? I think all answers are negative. If push males to pick the one from the two, I bet they all choose the orgasm, not intimacy, of course men want them both. Frankly speaking, men are already lucky enough compared to women, because so far women don’t figure out the two options.

The three models are not accurate to describe the real female sexual response, I construct a new model, and let me illustrate in details.

Firstly, I should pronounce that every woman can respond to sexual stimulation as same as every man, although there is no exact same sexual response between any two individuals, but the basic pattern is shared by all human beings, regardless of gender. This mode is not only for women, but also for all human being. In order to describe the sexual response accurately, I add the concept of the flow chart to my model, the green lines represent the whole process of sexual response.

During T₁, at the beginning, human is in daily life, and the sexual response level is in normal and not aroused yet.

During T₂, frankly speaking, desire depends on the body's instincts. A view of Beverly Whipple (satisfaction during one sexual experience can lead to the seduction phase of the next sexual experience) was right, but the problem is women never get satisfaction without orgasm, that is why women think sex is a chore, and why men always initiate sex with women but women don't, and why men think about sex every 15 seconds but women can't. I bet women will also think about sex every 10 seconds, if every time women can have orgasm.

During T3, in short, this is a preparation process. When a woman has the desire and wants to put it into practice, she needs someone or something to hook her up in physical. Many things can make women have excitement, such as smell, voice, words and porn. At this time, psychological factors play a decisive role in this phase and the fantasies are really helpful, then body starts to have some changes. The most obvious sign of sexual excitement in the male is the erection of his penis, and the most obvious sign of sexual excitement in female is lubrication of the vagina, but all people ignore the other important sign in female - erection of clitoral shaft. The length of T3 is related to your age, physical condition, and how urgency. When women are very young and good health, T3→0.

        Of course we can put T2 and T3 together. When women get aroused suddenly by an accident someone or something very special, T23→0. Women can feel distension and nerve beating of clitoral right way, and then can’t move legs anymore. She should only just stand there, until the strong feelings gone, and then she comes back to the normal level T1. When women already in T23, but she thinks it is not the right time to do this things or she is distracted by something or someone, she can give up the original plan and comes back to the normal, of course she can repeat it again during T23 itself.

        During T4, this is a brewing process. When woman's physical and psychological are ready, she is going to take action. She will twist ass unconsciously and squeeze the clitoral shaft with a proper rhythm and power. Fantasies also play a decisive role here. At the beginning of phase plateau, the slope of the curve is approximately zero, but as the acceleration of the movement, the slope rapidly becomes larger. The curve quickly gets high, and this time she feels her body almost out of her control, and she must stop to squeeze the clitoral and have a break, if she doesn’t want to orgasm quickly. She stops for a while or Change position to make the curve back to the beginning of phase plateau or T23, of course, she can come back to the normal, but it is so hard for her. When she finds the game is enough and wants to get the last shudder of climax, she can’t stop and should continue to accelerate and accelerate more and more, then she orgasms. The length of T4 is related to your age, physical condition and how long you orgasm the last time. Women also need longer to orgasm than the last time, if she gets several orgasms during one night. Be careful, Very serious consequences.

        During T5 and T6, both of them are very short. When she enters the orgasm mode, she can’t stop any longer, until done it. This process is irreversible. Orgasm almost lasts about 7 seconds, and the curve during T6 falls down instantaneously, then after that women fall into sleep immediately. The most visible physiological change during this period is the loss of erection of clitoral shaft.

During T7, women enter the refractory period, and she loses her all interests about sex immediately and just need to sleep. In this phase, she can’t get aroused and the capability to another erection or another orgasm. She couldn't concentrate her attention any more, even though she doesn’t have the conditions to sleep, until this period of time has elapsed. Women just come back to normal, and have the capability to get into another sex again.The refractory period may be very short in some individuals, especially while they are young, but it usually becomes longer with advancing age.

Porn can not be banned forever, because the fantasies are really helped for everyone.

2011-11-07T05:07:00.001-08:00

A lot of my female colleagues around me are very curious why their husbands like to watch porn so much, and these women really can’t figure out how fun it is. When I told them I also like to watch porn, they all got big surprise and give me a strange look like I am a freaky girl. That scene made me very embarrassed, because I don’t know what I can explain and how I can explain. I only can keep silent.

I think this question not only plagued my female colleagues around me, but also all women around the world. They think watching naked flesh makes them some kind of queasy, and they all advocate porn should be banned from the internet.

I don’t think so. I think porn can not be banned forever, because the fantasies are really helped for everyone. I believe that every adult man has seen porn and often saw, whether Presidents, Prime Ministers, or Civilian. Maybe they don’t love to see it, but they need to see it. That is the human nature. In my view watching porn is a highly cost-effective thing, when you want to orgasm and release yourself. Orgasm is not simple physiological functions like eat, drink or something, it contains complex nerve conduction. First, subjectively you need an orgasm to release yourself. Second, in order to complete orgasm, you need to find an objective to arouse your sexual organs. Porn is useful now. You can use visual stimulation to let you have physiological responses. This is the most direct and highly cost-effective way. Finally, when you are ready, you can masturbate or find someone to orgasm.

Why don’t women understand men like to see porn? Only one reason: women can’t get orgasm at all. I know there are many women out against what I said, but unfortunately I am right. Give you a very simple example: Woman's status is as same as the French wine in

China

. You know why the French wine are almost all counterfeit in China? Two reasons: First, also most important reason, Chinese people never never have drink real French wine, of course they can’t distinguish between genuine or counterfeit. Second, face is a concept of central importance because of its pervasive influence in interpersonal relations among Chinese, and the drinking French wine attach too much importance to 'face', people don’t want to expose it, if when they find some thing wrong with the French wine they drink. These two reasons are also applied to women for the female orgasm. Women don’t have an idea about female orgasm, they don’t even know what the female orgasm is, how to get orgasm. When I watch the porn, my attention is very focused, because I know I need some changes in myself. After a while, I can feel I am wet, of course it is not a necessary condition, but important thing I can feel my nerves jumping in my clitoral shaft, that feeling is very strong and with heart resonance sometimes. That is my physiological responses, I can’t help it. Then I am ready to orgasm I know that. I only have to waste about 1 minute to squeeze my clitoral shaft to get about 10 seconds shudder of climax. That is it.

Porn will never disappear, people really need it. Some countries under the cover name of anti-pornography have strict controls on the internet and establish the Great Firewall, and they have only one purpose: maintain their tyranny and dictatorship. It is time to wake up.

Unlocking the mystery of female orgasm will be the last straw that broke the same-sex marriage illegal.

2011-11-03T09:21:00.000-07:00

Today, there are more and more countries recognize same-sex marriage relationship, the homosexuality is legally recognized in Argentina, Belgium, Canada, Iceland, the Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, South Africa, Spain, and

Sweden

. In the United States, same-sex marriages are not recognized federally, though same-sex couples can marry in six states and one district. But compared with more than 200 countries and regions around the world, there is too little. The following figures are all provided by Wiki.

This figure clearly shows that the countries which recognize same-sex marriage legal are concentrated in Western Europe and the

Americas

where human rights and democracy are very advanced. In many countries from Asia and Africa, the governments don’t only recognize same-sex marriage legal, but sanction the same-sex relationships. It essentially illustrates that the Universal values of Western (peace, freedom, social progress, equal, rights and human dignity) need a long fight with Asian values (dictatorships and authoritarian) and African values (tribal culture).

It is inconceivable that the federal government does not recognize same-sex marriage in the United States, who prides itself on being the most advanced, most free, most democratic. In this area, the U.S. does fall behind Europe. I think President Obama still have so many important issues to reform, except the economic and health care reform. I believe the institution of marriage is a union not only between one man and one woman. I sincerely hope that the United States can set an example for all people around the world to bring them the real human rights and democracy.

In fact, it is very simple to judge the legality of same-sex marriage. The only one important thing is what the essence of marriage is or why two people want to get married. We should figure this out before we judge the same-sex marriage legal or illegal. In my opinion, the essence of marriage is: sex, love and commitment. If two individuals have these three things, they will be able to get married, whatever heterosexual or homosexual. About the love and promise, I think no one would deny that the same sex can have love and commitment to each other. So far we are not sure what exactly make two people love each other-Similarity or complementarity? On this issue, Nature has spoken: Same-sex loving' is common in hundreds of species and nearly all animal species exhibit same-sex behavior- from worms to frogs to birds -making the practice nearly universal among animals. I think the principle (the same-sex repulsion, opposites attract) can’t be applied to living animals. There is only one obstacle left to legality of same-sex marriage- sexual act. In different eras, cultures, and religions, homosexual behavior has been tolerated, punished, or banned, and they think the same sex behavior is a sin and some kind of shame. But when you jump out of the religion, you should know first what the purpose the sexual behavior is, only for reproduction? No, I don’t think so. I think not every sexual behavior has a reproductive function. Bingo! Every man knows the answer: sex behavior only has one purpose-orgasm, but unfortunately women don’t know that yet. The fact is the fact, whatever you know it or not. About orgasm, everybody knows that there is no male orgasm obstacle, and a male can get orgasm from whomever male or female, whatever use mouth or anus or any other parts of body. But female orgasm remains an evolutionary mystery so far. There are too many conjectures about female orgasm since Freud to Kinsey. Unfortunately, the conjecture is just conjecture, not the fact, and no one get the real answer to this mystery, and scientists continue to go along the wrong way.

I am trying to correct this mistake and give the real fact of female orgasm to all people around the world, maybe there have a long way to go, maybe I need to pay a huge cost, but I do not fear, because I am a woman, I have an obligation and responsibility to tell the truth to all women of the world. I just feel very very isolated, and maybe I am destined to be lonely all my life. I hope not.

One day, when the truth about female orgasm has come to light, when women can easily reach orgasm as same as men, I think there will be more and more countries and regions will support same-sex marriage. Unlocking the mystery of female orgasm will be the last straw that broke the same-sex marriage illegal. Only for one reason: orgasm is just shudder of climax whatever for a man or a woman, it will not be changed by anything or anybody homosexual or heterosexual.

In one word: Nothing can stop two people fall in love with each other get married, even if they are the same sex.

Clitoral shaft is the key to get an orgasm for female.

2011-10-29T02:17:00.000-07:00

After baffling biologists for decades, female orgasm remains an evolutionary mystery. Those scientists who claimed that only the clitoral can give women orgasm were just only half right, not exactly correct. They affirmed the importance of the clitoris for female orgasm, but they all put attentions on the clitoral glans, and ignored an important position-clitoral shaft. Few scientists have studied the role of clitoral shaft during female orgasm, so that I can’t find enough information about it on Google. It's no wonder, all people are focusing on the vagina, and no one pays any attention to a hidden organ.

The clitoral shaft is attached to the glans, just underneath the surface of the skin. The shaft is a round segment of spongy erectile tissue which can quickly fill with blood and thus cause the entire organ to stiffen and increase in size, and is very sensitive like the glans. It feels like a hard ridge about one-half to one inch long, and it rises toward the pubic mound for a short distance.

This hard ridge about one inch long is the key of female orgasm，and stimulation to the clitoral glans is not enough to an orgasm. In a traditional sexual intercourse, men usually took the initiative and dominated the sex, and they basically focused on the vagina puncture. Today, lots of men really want the women who they love to get female orgasm, then they use their mouths and fingers to stimulate women’s clitoral glans and vulva, but unfortunately only these methods are not enough to an orgasm. First, oral sex for women is no tricks, no direction, no rhythm, and men just wantonly play it, but ignore the important clitoral shaft which should be rubbed along its direction with great intensity and certain rhythm. Secondly, orgasm is a result of everyone’ initiative whatever male or female. The women must control the intensity and rhythm to the clitoral, and then you can get a real orgasm like sudden release of sexual tension.

According to my research, rubbing the root of clitoral shaft is enough, when you are about to an orgasm. After a real orgasm, women will have refractory period and fall asleep immediately.

Men' cheating is inevitable.

2011-10-23T01:27:00.000-07:00

Today I want to take you to explore a controversial topic. Is cheating inevitable among men? One proverb “There is nothing in a man's mind except sex”, but almost all men defend themselves “Most males cheat… Not all, I am an exception.” Those are all bullshit. I really want to know how many exceptions in the end? Frankly speaking, there is no one exception. Even if a man really did not cheat in the body (impossible), he also thought about other women during sex life.

Due to all men are not immune, there must have some natural reasons men can’t resist. The problem is not in men, and it must be in women. I think all women want to know what the most common reasons men are unfaithful and what lead up to husband cheating and having an affair.

All Women, you don’t need to blame yourselves. That is not because you are not good enough, even if you are the best woman in the world, your husband also will cheat on you. That is mainly you two don’t share the same values about sex. The fundamental reason is women can’t separate sex and love. Tracing the source of this question, why women can’t separate sex and love, but why men can. Women put "sex" into a very important and sacred place, but in men's view, sex is just a once ejaculation for once relax. They will have to release for many times in their lives, they think sex is an important and inevitable thing, but they don't think once ejaculation with different people is a big deal. The core of this issue is women can’t get orgasm easily like men, and women still can’t figure out what exactly the female orgasm is, and they are still be deceived. That is human nature. If women understand the truth, they also have an affair like men. It's as same as food. You can’t eat only one food for your whole life, even you like it very much, and other food even you don’t like them, but you want to have a change and freshness.

I think one day, the revelation that women can get orgasm easily as same as men is going to astonish all people around the world. Women can understand why her husband cheated on her. Maybe something will change the current system in society, but I am sure it will be in a good direction which enables people to release nature.

Intersex need to be understood, and accepted, not surgery.

2011-10-17T05:19:00.000-07:00

According to statistical data on Society of North America website, the situation about born intersex is not uncommon.

Not XX and not XY	one in 1,666 births
Klinefelter (XXY)	one in 1,000 births
Androgen insensitivity syndrome	one in 13,000 births
Partial androgen insensitivity syndrome	one in 130,000 births
Classical congenital adrenal hyperplasia	one in 13,000 births
Late onset adrenal hyperplasia	one in 66 individuals
Vaginal agenesis	one in 6,000 births
Ovotestes	one in 83,000 births
Idiopathic (no discernable medical cause)	one in 110,000 births
Iatrogenic (caused by medical treatment, for instance progestin administered to pregnant mother)	no estimate
5 alpha reductase deficiency	no estimate
Mixed gonadal dysgenesis	no estimate
Complete gonadal dysgenesis	one in 150,000 births
Hypospadias (urethral opening in perineum or along penile shaft)	one in 2,000 births
Hypospadias (urethral opening between corona and tip of glans penis)	one in 770 births

Total number of people whose bodies differ from standard male or female	one in 100 births
Total number of people receiving surgery to “normalize” genital appearance	one or two in 1,000 births

I didn’t do any survey on intersex before, so I'm not sure the above data, but I really never heard anyone around me is intersex. I think the vast majority of parents deliberately concealing the child's condition, and help children complete sex selection and do the surgery for keeping the secret, when the children are very young. There are also many world-renowned hospitals are doing in helping intersex to do repair surgery to let the children become the so-called "normalization”.

Here I propose a question, when these children were after the surgery, such as the big clitoris cut off, it seems to become so-called normal female appearance, but I want to know what is the significance do this surgery? Only the normalization of the surface of it? The surgery did not solve genetic problems, and they still have the original genes.

There is a more serious problem, when a child’ sex chromosomes have allele exchanged, she has male penis instead of female clitoris, but only one surgery that cut off the penis which organ only can collect the pleasure and achieve an orgasm, how does she get an orgasm, when the child grow up. Some people would say she still has vaginal, I repeat again and again, vaginal doesn’t have the ability to give people an orgasm whatever female or intersex.

Here, I strongly urge all hospitals to stop the intersex surgery. We as the so-called normal people don’t need to give them surgery, but understanding and acceptance. They are just one of us, only their parents gametes XY chromosome genes were cross-exchange. We are all cross-exchange results, but not in the sex chromosomes, the vast majority in autosomes. These intersex people are the result of the exchange in the sex chromosomes.

Intersex people do not need surgery, they need world’ understanding and acceptance.

Crossing-over partial occurrence between X chromosome and Y chromosome is the key of intersex.

2011-10-03T09:14:00.000-07:00

I have contacted almost all of the so-called female orgasm researchers and organizations, but no one trusted me. Why such a fact is so difficult to accept by people? Why do they insist on a false and illusory assumption that women can have multiple orgasms? What I wrote are all facts, but```````. I am not an expert in intersex, but I propose a new theory here about intersex to help you to understand female orgasm better.

Intersex , in humans and other animals, is the presence of intermediate or atypical combinations of physical features that usually distinguish female from male. It has 4 cases.

1. Female pseudohermaphroditism – In this case the sex chromosomes are XX and the female has ovaries, but also external male sex organs (penis).

2. Male pseudohermaphroditism – They have XY as sex chromosomes, but their external organs are not fully developed or they are completely female on the outside.

3. True hermaphroditism – While the above were “pseudohermaphroditism”, meaning they are mostly male or mostly female, in this case there are both testicles and ovaries. These people can appear anywhere from females with a large clitoris to those with male external organs.

4. Complex or Undetermined Intersex Disorders –Many chromosome configurations other than simple 46, XX or 46, XY can result in disorders of sex development. These include 45, XO (only one X chromosome), and 47, XXY, 47, XXX -- both cases have an extra sex chromosome, either an X or a Y. These disorders do not result in an intersex condition where there is discrepancy between internal and external genitalia.

Here I will explain 4 cases one by one.

As is known to all, Chromosomal crossing-over is an exchange of genetic material between homologous chromosomes. It is one of the final phases of genetic recombination, which occurs during prophase I of meiosis in a process called synapsis. Synapsis begins before the synaptonemal complex develops, and is not completed until near the end of prophase I. Crossover usually occurs when matching regions on matching chromosomes break and then reconnect to the other chromosome.

But experts thought that the crossing-over just occurs during Non-sister chromatids in 22 pairs of autosomes, but sex chromosomes often remain unpaired because the X and Y chromosomes are very different from each other in their genetic composition. That is the key point of intersex. Physical exchange of homologous chromosomal regions by homologous recombination during prophase I is absolute, and Non-exchange is relative. It is easy to understand, as same as the movement is absolute, static is relative. Intersex is the typical results of crossing-over between X and Y chromosomes. Precisely, intersex is just only one typical result of numerous possibilities caused by crossing-over between X and Y chromosomes. I think there are wealth of contents in X and Y chromosomes, not only unitary control boy or girl.

Case 1, Female pseudohermaphroditism- when the father’ sex chromosomes have crossing-over during meiosis I. The Y chromosome give some chromatid segments to X chromosome, and get some alleles back, which only control you have a female clitoris or male penis, but not control other information. Then the father gives his exchanged X_f chromosome to his daughter. Although, his daughter has X_mX_f chromosomes, she indeed has male penis instead of female clitoris. There is another key factor, all the genes that control sex trait are dominant inheritance. As a result, the daughter’ X_m chromosome from her mother can’t express out, and she only can express dominant trait from his father’s exchanged X_fchromosome. The result is the girl has a male penis.

Case 2, Male pseudohermaphroditism- it is as same as case 1. But the father gives his exchanged Y chromosome to his son. Although, his son has XY chromosomes, he indeed has female clitoris instead of male penis, because the genes whatever in X chromosome from his mother or exchanged Y chromosome from his father are invisible inheritance. The result is the boy don’t have male penis, though he has XY chromosomes.

We can say that the above “pseudohermaphroditism” ‘culprits are the fathers. More specifically, where did Father's genes come from? Of course from grandparents. In other words, Female pseudohermaphroditism- the grandfather’ part of sex genes inherited to granddaughter through his son, and granddaughter expressed male trait from her grandfather’ genes. Male pseudohermaphroditism- the grandmother’s part of sex genes inherited to grandson through her son, and grandson expressed female trait from his grandmother’ genes, not from his mother. This point is very important for researching intersex.

The above two kinds of ambiguous genitalia is the result of allelic exchange between X chromosome and Y chromosome. The people in this situation whatever Female pseudohermaphroditism or Male pseudohermaphroditism have 46 chromosomes and can produce germ cells. Because the probability of crossing-over occurrence during sex chromosomes is very small, we can ignore the crossing-over again.

In case 3, this extreme example of hermaphroditism is quite rare. I am not so sure, I think it is also the results of crossing-over partial occurrence between X chromosome and Y chromosome, but this time it is not allelic exchange, it is non-allelic crossing-over between sex chromosomes. As the result, the people also have 46 chromosomes, but the sex chromosome must have structural abnormalities. A portion of the chromosome is duplicated, resulting in extra genetic material instead of a portion of the same chromosome is missing or deleted. The sex trait the people expressed is they have the 2 homologous organs.

In case 4, this situation can’t be explained by crossing-over between sex chromosomes. I think it is related to Meiosis I and Meiosis II. In Anaphase Meiosis I, the centromeres break, but homologous chromosomes not separate and go to one of two haploid daughter cells together. In Anaphase Meiosis II, the centromeres break, but sister chromatids not separate and go to haploid daughter cells. Details are in the following two tables, red font genes have been found.

I agree with the view “The Five Sexes” by Anne Fausto Sterling-Professor of Biology and Women's Studies in the Department of Molecular and Cell Biology and Biochemistry at Brown University. I think sex chromosomes not only determine sex, they also have genes for many functions we don’t know yet. There is no absolute male and female. Physical exchange of homologous chromosomal is absolute, and Non-exchange is relative. Intersex person is just one of us. Maybe lesbian, gay and bisexual are all because of crossing-over during sex chromosomes.

There is my own opinion, I am not an expert on genes, but I am sure that women only can get female orgasm from clitoral. The clitoral is only homologous to the penis. Vaginal orgasm, G-spot and multiple orgasms are all bullshit. Women also have a refractory period after every orgasm as same as male. Don’t be silly anymore.

Did Albert Einstein get it wrong? But I am sure Sigmund Freud, Alfred Kinsey and Grafenberg were totally wrong.

2011-09-25T06:06:00.001-07:00

I don’t want to make personal attacks here to Freud, Kinsey or Grafenberg. I admire them all, but it doesn’t mean I agree with them on the subject of female orgasm what they said.

Freud believed two kinds of orgasm existed: “vaginal orgasm” and “clitoral orgasm.” He taught that vaginal orgasm was healthier, more mature, and vastly better than clitoral orgasm. According to Freud, it was only later in life, after renouncing her clitoridian orgasm as infantile and immature, that a woman could reach adult sexuality, by finally obtaining a vaginal orgasm. Women who did not have vaginal orgasms were frigid.

Freud’ theory was the culprit of misleading. As a man, how did he know that women have vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm? His theory was that he deserved out of the reverie. He guessed men need to use women’s vaginal to orgasm, and of course, women also can get orgasm through the vaginal puncture. The result is so ridiculous and stupid, and after all, Freud only interviewed three Viennese women.

Then lies continue. Kinsey was coming up. The book “the Kinsey report” encouraged diversity not only between male and female orgasm, but also in female orgasms. This theory said men and women have different genitals, and of course female can’t get the strong and obvious orgasm like men. But fortunately women have the ability to get a variety of orgasms and they can get multiple orgasms in one sex (nonsense), but men only have a refractory period after every orgasm. This theory is more ridiculous. Kinsey found a superficial phenomenon to instead that he can’t find the truth about female orgasm. The result is quite serious. Until now, Women have still been deceived by so-called multiple orgasms.

More seriously, in 1950, there was another farcical, ironically, unfounded theory showed up. In an article written in 1950, Ernest Grafenberg described a zone located on the front part of the vagina, close to the urethra, which he thinks plays determining role in reaching vaginal orgasm for women during vaginal intercourse. Grafenberg not only inherited the mantle of the predecessors, but also put forward another imagination-G spot. This theory is really an imagination by a male compared to the previous two. But so far in anatomic study concerning over 100 vaginal biopsies, we didn’t find any specific neurological characteristic in terms of what is being described as the G spot. Of course, you can’t find it, because G spot never existed. If there are really enough nerves in vaginal, why don’t women have no idea about that they have got vaginal infection and 3 degrees of cervical erosion. Another result is that mislead people thought incontinence by male puncture is a real female orgasm. Toooooooo stupid.

These theories are all nonsense, and don’t take them as a bible. They just made guesses for an unsolved mystery, unfortunately, they all failed. The facts about female orgasm are that women never can get orgasm from vaginal, and they never can get multiple orgasms in one sex, because women also have a refractory period after a real orgasm and require time to switch back to urine mode after ejaculation mode, female incontinence is not an orgasm at all. Women and men have the same ejaculation system and process.

Women also fall asleep after a real orgasm

2011-09-07T08:13:00.000-07:00

Almost all women complain about that their boyfriends or husbands act like different person before and after sex, compared with the previous attentive and considerate attitude. Men often flip over and snooze after sex while, but women are even more ready to clean the room like nothing happened. Why do men fall asleep after sex, but the same thing do not occur in women. There is little direct evidence explaining why men fall sleep, but there is a generally accepted view is that the biochemical prolactin is released, physically altering his body and making him very tired.

Listen, all women, don’t blame your man, you are also going to fall asleep immediately, if one day you can orgasm yourself like men. I would like to clarify that these particular hormones are not only released in man's brain, but also can be released in female brain after a real orgasm. But people have not found it yet. I agree that very much the brain play a very important role in ejaculation, not only in male orgasm, but also in female orgasm. In the process of ejaculation whatever male or female, the brain plays the same role.

There is another wrong point of view, because men dominate sexual life and consume a lot of physical strength, so they are tired and falling asleep immediately after ejaculation. I deny this view. This phenomenon about sleep after orgasm is an objective reality, a man will feel very sleepy, whether he ejaculates within 1 minute or 30 minutes. The time doesn’t matter, and you can think that Long-distance runners never fell asleep after the game. There must have something Specific released during orgasm which can reduce stress levels, which again could lead to relaxation and sleepiness.

Sleep after an orgasm is a normal phenomenon. Unfortunately, it is not completely clear so far.

Kidney also plays an important role in female ejaculation

2011-09-02T06:45:00.000-07:00

The kidneys, organs with several functions, serve essential regulatory roles in most animals. It is generally accepted that the kidney plays an important role in the male ejaculation, but I think the kidney does the same function in female ejaculation.

If a man has ejaculated several times a night, he might get some symptoms the next day include lower back pain, frequency of urination, slowing of the urinary stream, dysuria and sexual dysfunction. Medical experts will tell you by far the most common cause of your symptoms would be prostatitis, an inflammation of the prostate gland.

But I want to say loudly here, I do not agree with this diagnosis. I am a woman and should not have prostate, but I also have these symptoms like lower back pain, frequency of urination, slowing of the urinary stream, dysuria and sexual dysfunction after I ejaculate so many times in a short time. For example this was what I really experienced, once I was 24 years old and saw American TV, I was very very moved by the kiss between the main couple in the show, but U.S. TV broadcasted an episode one week, and I need to wait to the next week to see what they done after the kiss. In that waiting week, I was so obsessed with that kiss, and every night I would masturbate 4 times, until past that week I had ejaculated 28 times. As the result I suffered a deserved punishment after I had done the crazy movement. I got lower back pain and frequency of urination very serious and also felt very pain in my labia majora. I didn’t know why, I just can touch something in my labia majora. I almost had to go to toilet 30 times day and night, and every time I was so urge to urinate, but little comes out. In that week, I didn’t ejaculate any more. I thought I was sick, but the week over, I recovered back.

I'm sure there must be some secret about female orgasm not solved yet, but unfortunately, no one believed what I said.

No orgasm may be the key of the Menopausal Syndrome; ejaculation is the best way to treat insomnia.

2011-08-31T05:11:00.000-07:00

Experts say a number of factors gang up in menopause to disturb your sleep. Hormone levels, health issues, lifestyle, and situational stressors all play a role in whether you get to sleep and stay asleep.

I do not know current theory about menopausal syndrome is correct or not. As a real female ejaculator, I am 27 years old and not qualified to define the reason of menopausal symptoms, according to my own experience, but here I would like to make my guess, and maybe it could be verified later.

I think whether orgasm or not is the key of the menopausal syndrome. In my ten years of ejaculation, not every time I do ejaculate because I need to release in physically, although most because of physiological needs. Sometimes I got insomnia and can not sleep for some reason, but I need to sleep, because I really had some important thing to do tomorrow. I always forced myself to ejaculate once in order to fall into a deep sleep. Of course I was not ready in the psychological condition, and I felt weak ejaculation and ejaculatory anhedonia. I was able to ejaculate physically but do not have the accompanying feelings of release, pleasure, or orgasm.

Whatever I felt pleasure or not, I finally got my purpose-sleep immediately.

Understand female orgasm from difference between Male & Female Circumcision

2011-08-28T01:14:00.000-07:00

Today, people are still entangled in the problem that the real female orgasm is vaginal orgasm from G-spot or clitoral orgasm. Such a simple, easy and instinctive physiological problem actually has deceived all women for so many years. Today I take you to close the truth of female orgasm from the other cruel side.

Circumcision is divided into female circumcision and male circumcision. Male circumcision is the surgical removal of some or all of the foreskin (prepuce) from the penis. Female circumcision is female genital cutting including the clitoris, labia majora and labia minora. But the same circumcisions bring the different results to men and women. I don’t know male circumcision is beneficial for men or not, but at least not affect the male orgasm. Then look at the popular female circumcision in African tribes, in total it’s estimated that as many as two million girls a year are subjected to genital mutilation.

I need to ask why women suffer cruel circumcision. In fact, woman implemented circumcision is as "asexual person." She is never going to have any lust, and in her whole life she can never experience sexual pleasure. I need to ask another philosophical question. Since vaginal G-spot only can give women real orgasm, why did women suffer cutting clitoris, labia majora and labia minora, but not G-spot? Circumcised Women have no any differences from castrated eunuchs in the court of ancient China, and eunuchs have been cut off the penis, testicles, and scrotum. In essence, circumcised female are as same as eunuchs and never going to have an orgasm once. Circumcision makes women lose only one organ which is only able to collect the sexual pleasure - the clitoris. Women lost the rights to orgasm, leaving only the vagina, and became male orgasm'receptacles and reproduction'tools.

G-spot never exists, and do not be deceived by absurd theory. Only clitoris can bring female an orgasm. Female Circumcision makes me even more convinced that there must be some organ in labia majora.

No difference in brain scan between male and female orgasm

2011-08-25T06:32:00.000-07:00

The University of Groningen scans showed important differences between the male and female orgasm. Professor Komisaruk from Rutgers University also said. "The evidence is that woman tends to have longer orgasms and can experience several of them." According to a McGill University study, the male brain produces 52 percent more serotonin than the female brain. Serotonin is a mood-influencing chemical, and its strong presence in men may explain why fewer men than women suffer from depression or why men often seem to be generally more easygoing than women. In men, the part of the brain responsible for mating behavior is more than twice as large as it is in women's brains. This may help to explain why men seem to have much more active sex drives than do women and also why men think about sex every minute, while women could go a day or two without thinking about it.

I am against all of the above point of view.

First of all, I think there is no difference in brain scan between male and female orgasm. Women have the brain response in orgasm as same as men. Secondly, women don’t have longer orgasms than men, even women never have the ability to get multiple orgasms, because women also have refractory period after every real orgasm. Thirdly, brain releases some particular hormones that lead women sleepiness and relaxation. After a real female orgasm, women are lethargic and completely relaxed, which will also induce sleep much faster than normal. Finally, I think women will think about sex every 15 seconds, when they are not deceived by so-called sex professors any more and really figure out what exactly the female orgasm is.

These so chaotic scenes have just one reason that people do not identify clearly the essence of female orgasm. Women are always in self-deception.

Maybe there is some organ unknown in labia majora

2011-08-19T07:29:00.000-07:00

There is a popular opinion that the testes are the sources of semen which the male ejaculates. the testes are supposed to become swollen with accumulated secretions between to be necessary in order to relieve these pressures. That is main reason why male need to ejaculate regularly.

That's the fact, but need to release not only men, women also need to release. Why do women not feel a strong need to release? There is only one reason – women never experience the pleasure of release during the process. Physical orgasm is like taking drugs, once you have experienced, you will inevitably need to ejaculate every time. That will be your core interests, and of course you can’t retreat it for anyone or anything.

The labia majora correspond to the scrotum in the male. Beneath the skin layer, there is mostly fatty tissue with some ligaments, smooth muscle fibers, nerves, and blood and lymphatic. I think not only those inside the labia majora, but also some organs are not been found in labia majora yet. Since the scrotum and labia majora are homologous to the human body, why there are no organs in female labia majora, but two testes in male scrotum. But the anatomists have never found them, and no women claimed that they can touch something inside the labia majora before.

I think it mainly because of the principle of disuse. In the process of reproduction of human evolution, women was always fulfilled the obligations of reproduction as male ejaculation' receptacle, but they ignored the self-demand, and some important organs shrunk slowly without use for a long time. In recent years, although some scientists study in the female orgasm, but they always entangled in the clitoris orgasm and vaginal orgasm, they ignore the anatomy of the labia majora.

Every orgasm is the result of different kind masturbation.

2011-08-08T06:28:00.000-07:00

People generally think that masturbation is done by yourself and intercourse is required a partner. But here I want to show a different view. I think every orgasm is the result of different kind masturbation.

Intercourse is just a kind of masturbation, through using others part of the body to stimulate their own genitals to get their own orgasms. The tools can be different - hands, vagina, mouth, anus, or something else. It doesn’t matter, and the results are the same- orgasm (shudder of climax about 10 seconds).

Orgasm is an objective physiological requirement, and it has nothing to do with subjective objector or person. This is the only prerequisite for the establishment, in order to distinguish between love and sex. That is the root reason why almost men can distinguish the two, and almost women can’t distinguish. Love is love, sex is sex. Love is in love with someone’ soul and sex is just with one purpose-orgasm. Love and sex are completely different.

Woman makes the same, orgasm must be given by own self. Whatever you use or whoever you have intercourse with, you will never get orgasm, if you can’t get an orgasm by yourself.

Women and men have the same ejaculation system and process.

2011-08-05T21:25:00.000-07:00

From Freud to Kinsey, and then Shere Hite, people have been trying to unlock the secrets of female orgasm, but always missed the truth, although Shere Hite has been very close to the fact.

Here I make an announcement to the world loudly again, do not struggle the old and wrong views, and the only fact is women and men have the same ejaculation system and process.

Female ejaculation whole process is like this, sex aroused, friction and squeeze the clitoris, shudder of climax (approximately less than 10 seconds), instantaneous release of some kind of hormones from the brain so that female immediately into a refractory period. I know it sounds incredible, and it sounds like a male orgasm, but these are facts. A woman does not have any so-called multiple orgasms, whoever said they had experienced multiple orgasms, what she experiences is not a real orgasm.

If a woman has reached a real orgasm, she would immediately fall into the refractory period, and immediately lose interest in sex, and she can not continue to help a man to get his orgasm. In other words, two orgasms are mutually exclusive, and they cannot occur at the same time.

Why do women always like to fake orgasm?

2011-07-17T05:56:00.000-07:00

Through some press reports that according to their investigation there are over 70% women admitted they had faked orgasm sometimes, I fear that the real figure is higher than the data, even more than you can imagine.

Why do women always like to fake orgasm? To be honest, this phenomenon is hard to be explained. As an indeed female ejaculator, I faked orgasm at least once. Here I try to find some inside reasons according to my experience.

Firstly, also the most important point is women really do not know what is the orgasm? Even until now, compared to the unified views of male orgasm, there are still many different views about female orgasm, and these views makes women even more confused. These so-called male experts, studying the female orgasm, have their researches on the premise that female have different sexual orgasm from the male, based on their experience of sexual partners. Unfortunately, their premise is totally a big mistake. Those so-called female experts, studying the female orgasm, have their researches on the premise that several women claim they can get orgasms during a few experiments in labs or in questionnaires. I want to ask a question to those female professors. As a woman, can you get orgasm easily whenever you want? Do you dare to answer my question? I guess the answer is negative. One woman does not experience orgasm whenever she wants, she could not get the true meaning of the female orgasm. Even more they misunderstand the female orgasm is urinary incontinence, this is completely poles apart. Urine mode and ejaculation mode can’t coexist in the same time. Female also can’t have a pee during her orgasm as same as male. But the current researches are still insisting that the female can get multiple orgasms. After urinary incontinence, the woman always is embarrassed and shy, that is of course, I think every man is also embarrassed, if he is just urinary incontinence during sex, and not ejaculation.

Secondly, women always put their hopes of pursuit female orgasm on men, and women thought they only can get orgasms by vaginal puncture. But unfortunately they are disappointed over and over again. Pleasure can be sustained for a long time, and women are misled by a series of pleasure and consider it as a real orgasm, but the real orgasm is a short time to reach a certain height, and then go to low ebb immediately.

Finally, the women always focus on male feelings, and women did not enter their own security model to ejaculation, but Ejaculation must require a complete ecstasy mode. Women naturally only care about how others see themselves, but often ignore their own essential needs, such as breast augmentation, wearing high heels. Rather than not suffer the pain, women would like to get the praise from others.

When will the real female Declaration of Independence come?

2011-07-04T10:23:00.000-07:00

Today is July 4th - American Independence Day. In this special day, I want to write something to celebrate America's birthday. One constitution and two wars changed the United States.

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal , that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness” Particularly this second sentence in The United States Declaration of Independence This sentence has been called "one of the best-known sentences in the English language"

George Washington is universally regarded as the "Father of his country" and he led the American victory over Great Britain in the American Revolutionary War（1775-1783）and Liberate America. Since then, the United States was no longer a British colony, but a truly independent country.

Abraham Lincoln who is widely regarded as a champion of black freedom who supported social equality of the races, and who fought the American Civil War (1861-1865) to free the slaves. He advocated the abolition of the slavery, white and black equality. The victory of this war marked a major step forward in the development of human rights in the United States.

Whose suffering should we care about, When Americans, slaves and blacks have been liberated? Let me tell you-all women all over the world. Although women's rights has been liberated for some years, but a core problem has not solved. That is female orgasm, it sill a mystery in such a technological development today. I have to say this is the biggest satire for every woman. Did God not give this talent to women, when he created the women? Is God really a he not a she?

I want to break this mystery, but I feel very weak, so many people stand in front of me to stop me, not only the men, but also the women. I contacted many of the so-called professors studying in female orgasm, but they do not want to hear what I'm saying? The only way I can do is writing everything here. Perhaps our descendants will prove the fact what I said，maybe I am already dead in that time.

I am an ordinary female, because what I can do is one thing all women should do. I am not an ordinary female, because what I can do is one thing all women can’t do right now.

I have a dream one day I can break the old concept.

I have a dream one day every woman doesn't fake orgasm any more and knows how to ejaculate.

I have a dream one day women and men are really equal in society on every side.

Ejaculation is a habit, don’t blame male

2011-07-01T08:06:00.000-07:00

So many women think sex is a chore for them, and they always complaint that sex is only one thing in male brain, and every male is an animal who only can use his dick to think. As a woman, I want to clarify for the men here. Do not blame men, and ejaculation is just a habit from childhood by instinct.

I can't imagine that a woman can get an orgasm from a man during her marriage sex life, if she never gets an orgasm by masturbation in her teenage. Orgasm is a habit you only can get it by yourself, whatever a man or a woman. I think it is so hard to change this awkward condition about female orgasm, if a woman doesn’t have that habit from her teenage. I think every man has his first orgasm definitely from masturbation by himself. When he grows up, he finds some girls can cause him to this habit, that is why a man want have a sex with a woman, and his final purpose is the orgasm through the girl who can hook him up, but not the girl herself. When a man wants to take action in this habit, he just needs a tool, but the tool can be different, hand, mouth, vagina, anus, whatever, it really doesn’t matter. That makes gays as the same. A gay has the same habit, but this habit he wants to keep only can be caused by some gays. People gay or straight essentially have no difference. I don’t think a man can get an orgasm through other people, if he never has orgasm by himself at all.

If women want real freedom and liberation in this male-dominated world, we must cultivate this habit from childhood. Only you can have this orgasm habit, and you can get this habit from others, whatever from a woman or a man.

When a man wants to ejaculation, he don't even take off his pants, and just need to take his dick out, but I want to tell every one loudly here getting orgasm is easier for a woman than a man, she doesn't need to take off her pants and even doesn't need to take off anything to get an orgasm.

If you just provide your vagina as the receptacle for the penis during sexual intercourse, you will never get an orgasm

2011-06-27T07:12:00.000-07:00

Almost all women only put their hopes to get orgasm on the puncture into the vagina by men, even lesbians also use the vibrator to pleasure each other. What a pity. The puncture by penis or vibrator can't even give a woman an orgasm at all.

This is the biggest mistake that cause women can't get orgasm easily. If you pay all your attention only on puncture into your vagina, you will never get an orgasm in your whole life. When you provide your vagina as the receptacle for the penis or vibrator, you should open your legs, but the key is that this mode is not conducive to getting orgasm for a woman. If you are opened by something or someone, you do not have enough sense of security and your attention is loose and you can't focus all your attention on one point, of course you don't have a focus to use your body's strength, the consequence is women can't get the orgasm at all.

All women, if you want a real orgasm, you should start to close your legs first.

Distinguish between orgasm and urination－female incontinence is not orgasm at all

2011-06-20T09:11:00.000-07:00

Almost women have the problems about urinary incontinence during sex. "Every time I feel like I want to orgasm, I stop because it feels like I have to pee, I don't know if I have to pee or if I am really having an orgasm". It mainly because women don't even know what a real orgasm is and they can't even distinguish between orgasm and urination, so they are confused with urinary incontinence and deceived by themselves.

Listen, if you want to urinate, when you are in sex，that is not right. The feeling of urinary incontinence only can illustrate that you get the wrong place to stimulate. This stimulation can't give you an orgasm; it only can give you urinary incontinence. If you get the right place to stimulate, you will find that you can't urinate and orgasm at the same time.

One more thing, many women have the feelings of shame and embarrassment after so-called female ejaculation. Why do they have these bad feelings and why do men not have these bad feelings, if both of orgasms are in the same. This problem can't be explained by current theories so far. Frankly speaking, the answer is the feelings like urinary incontinence that the female experience during so-called orgasm is not a real orgasm. After a real orgasm, women have no time and mood to be shame and embarrassed, and because your brain will immediately release some special hormones to make you sleepy very much, you lose your interest in sex immediately and you can't get into another sex right now, it called refractory period as same as male.

I am challenging Barry R. Komisaruk and Beverly Whipple here

2011-06-05T05:29:00.000-07:00

Barry and Beverly, Listen, don’t flatter yourselves, you never found the Nobel Prize, if you have Nomination for the Nobel Prize, I will be the first to stand out against it, because you don’t even figure out the essence of the female orgasm. I am not against you, I am against your research, and I really want you know the fact about female orgasm, and don’t waste your any time any longer.

You said you have been witness to more than 200 live- action orgasms in your lab. I doubt how you know they have the orgasm, they told you? You said that the volunteer raises her hand to indicate that she is having an orgasm. You have the machine at your lab, why do you need the volunteer tell you? What about they don’t even know what is the orgasm? What if they fake the orgasm? Why do you need them to tell you? Do you need one man to tell you if he orgasms? The answer is negative. All your research depends on those women who tell you they can orgasm, but who can stand out and tell all people around the world that I can orgasm easily every time I want to? If one woman wants to get orgasm through the dildo, they should dream that in the grave.

You said you believer a woman has the capacity to experience a more intense and complex orgasm than a man. That is bullshit. A woman doesn’t have the more capacity than a man in orgasm, because a woman has the capacity as same as a man neither more nor less. Female orgasm is like shudder of climax like male. After a real orgasm, a woman also has refractory period and her brain releases some hormone what can lead a woman sleepy immediately, so female can’t get multiple orgasms forever.

Sorry for my English, but every word I said is the fact. I can take responsibility for my words.

Female also require time to switch back to urine mode after ejaculation mode

2011-05-30T07:09:00.001-07:00

In fact, according to my experience, I am a woman and always feel the need to urinate shortly after ejaculating, but it always takes along time for me to pee, because I can apparently feel I should switch my somewhere back to urine mode in order to urinate out. Sometimes I have trouble peeing after ejaculation, and I feel my some organ doesn't open to let the urine out voluntarily. I really should switch something, but none of the studies mentioned that before.

Whatever I urinate or not before I start having sex, I always have to pee after my ejaculation, and then fall into sleep quickly, although I get the refractory period immediately and feel very tired and sleepy.

I declare that there must be some organs in female body we didn’t find yet which is the key of female ejaculation.

The female body also has a system that keeps it from being able to ejaculate and urinate at the same time.

2011-05-29T06:01:00.001-07:00

In traditional opinion, this system just exists in male body, but here I declare women also have this system.

During my sexual arousal, I can’t urinate during my sex movement, until I finish my ejaculation. If I want to ejaculate quickly in 2 minutes, I can’t go to urinate and I should hold my urine, and if I want to ejaculate not so quickly, I should urinate before my sexual arousal.

Why do so many women declare that they have to urinate during intercourse? Because what they experience is not a real orgasm, they are oppressed the urinary bladder by male penetration during intercourse. This is fake orgasm.

So far I don't know what system makes it impossible for urine to be released during ejaculation, but I am so sure there is system in female body that keeps it from being able to ejaculate and urinate at the same time.

Maria Shriver, don't be so stressful, one day you will understand sexual misconduct is normal

2011-05-26T08:52:00.000-07:00

In almost male eyes, Schwarzenegger just made a mistake that all men will do, but it didn’t mean he didn’t love you at that time. In almost female eyes, a man having extramarital sex means he didn’t love you anymore. But the fact is not like the female point. There is a real huge gap about this matter between male and female.

Maria, I can assert that you will also make a sexual misconduct, if you can ejaculate easily like Schwarzenegger. In this world, No man would not want other people. Someone has enough power, money or charm to make some women on his bed. If someone doesn’t have those, he just goes to find a whore to satisfy himself. There is no innocent man in the world. Maybe there is a man stands in front of me and swears he never have second sexual partner. Yeah, I believe that, but I can assert he must fantasy other hot women sometimes, when he fucks his wife. Without exception.

I am a woman, but I very agree with the point of men, because I also need to release myself on time, and I also fantasy so many people, when I masturbate. I don’t think it is a big deal. I don’t think I love these people. Love is love, and sex is sex. I just want to ejaculation. That is it.

Maria, when you can ejaculate whenever you want, when all women around the world can ejaculate easily like male, when I break the old and wrong view of female orgasm and tell all women how to ejaculate, you will must also want to have sex on different people. Then you can understand what your husband makes today.

Women also can get orgasm during their menstrual period

2011-05-21T03:35:00.001-07:00

Nearly all women refused to have sex with a man during their menstrual period. That is right. Because if do that, women are susceptible to gynecological diseases, but it doesn’t mean women can’t orgasm during menstrual period.

In fact, women can get orgasm as easy as usual-groan, shudder of climax, and small amount of mucus like egg white without blood from vaginal, some hormones released by brain lead to a refractory period after orgasm. The only consequence is that you must be bleeding during ovulation for 4 or 5 days, but the exact cause of bleeding during ovulation is not clear in medicine. I think unlocking the secrets of female orgasm is the key to unlocking the cause of bleeding ovulation.

Menstrual period just can stop women providing their vaginal to men as a receptacle, but never stop women getting orgasm.

Orgasm together is never going to happen - whatever in straight couple or in gay couple

2011-05-17T09:58:00.000-07:00

Women are always in the pursuit of a result that they can reach orgasm with her husband at the same time. But the merciless facts always make women down over and over.

     In fact, orgasm together never happens, whatever in straight couple or in gay couple. Frankly speaking, a man when he aroused, need to release, and he don't care about exactly what they use, Vaginal, mouth, anus or masturbation. It doesn't matter. Those are all methods. The only purpose is ejaculation at last. When you are during your ejaculation, you must control the rhythm and totally in your own world, and you can’t cooperate with your partner and can’t care about your partner’ feeling, because you have to focus your whole attention in your last ejaculation. That doesn’t mean you don’t love your partner. It is all by your nature.

     Gays are lucky, because they can ejaculate one by one. One get, and the other service, until one ejaculate, they turn over. But in straight couple, only men can get orgasm, the poor women always service and service again and again. They always fantasy that one day they can get orgasm from men. Even they have a dream that they can ejaculate with men together.

     I query that whether lesbians can get orgasm from each other, because they always do as the same as straights, just use vibrators instead of dick. There in no offense here, I never doubt about the true love between two women. I am so moved by the kiss during Bette and Tina in 504, the L word, and I am so happy that they can come back together, because they are still in love with each other, but love is love, sex is sex. Love can't instead of orgasm. They try to use the feelings of love to deceive their body desire.

     Please, all women, figure out what exactly the orgasm is, before you do it.

     So the gay is indeed luckier than the straight and lesbian.

Women also have refractory period after a real female orgasm

2011-05-12T08:10:00.000-07:00

After sex, men typically are lethargic and completely relaxed, and immediately roll over and going to sleep and they become unresponsive to sexual stimulation and can’t get into another excitement phase until some period of time has elapsed. This recovery time is called refractory period.

But no research has found that women have refractory period after female orgasm. Why is it? The answer is easy women never get a real female orgasm, they get a fake orgasm. Those women who claim that they can get multiple orgasms during one session are all deceived by themselves. They even don’t know what exactly the orgasm is.

According to my research, women also have refractory period after a real female orgasm, and they can’t get into another excitement phase right after orgasm, and become unresponsive to sex and very tired and find it easy to sleep. Multiple orgasms are impossible in women at all. Mechanism is unclear right now. I guess that because female brain also can release some hormones during orgasm that lead to sleepiness and relaxation.

Who on earth prevent the female getting orgasm?

2011-05-07T09:07:00.000-07:00

Whereas the male orgasm has never given any cause for controversy, the female orgasm has been an incomprehensible, mysterious and permanent questioning since the middle of the 19^th century for endless.

Everything has the rule, an order to it, is determined. Who on earth prevent female getting orgasm? Who mislead women to a wrong place? Whoever Freud, Kinsey, Masters, Johnson, or even Grafenberg, they proposed their theories just as hypothesis, and most of theories are fantasy, but all researchers after them consider their hypothesis as the Bible. The only result they left is that female orgasm seems to be getting even more mysterious by clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasm, G-spot, female multiple orgasms etc. There are all bullshits.

There is only one type of orgasm whatever man or woman. Female orgasm is as same as a shudder of male climax. Women can never have multiple orgasms, because they also have a refractory period after a real orgasm.

Love is love, sex is sex. Why can't women separate love and sex?

2011-05-04T08:11:00.000-07:00

There is only one reason that women can't get orgasm whenever they want by their sex nature. In my eyes, I think love is love, sex is sex. There is no necessary relationship between the two. Sex is like eating, drinking or shitting. You should do it every day when you need, but you never fall in love with food, water or toilet. Do you understand?

   I don't know why it is so easy for me, but it is so hard for other women. When I fall in love with somebody, I want to be with him all time, and I care about everything about him. I would like to share every minute with him. When we kiss, I can be sexual arousal in one second. I feel my whole bones are crisp, and my private parts are numb, I can't move anyway. Until that feeling gone, I can move.

   But sex is never that way. First I want to ejaculate, then I see a porn, In the whole process, I don't need to be moved. I just need my some my organ aroused enough.

   I think one day all women are not going to be cheated by so-called fake female orgasm and can ejaculate like me, you will know what I am talking about nowadays.

My libido and age

2011-04-24T05:45:00.000-07:00

There is a proverb in my country- “thirty as Wolf, forty such as tiger”. That describes that women' age between 30 and 40 have high libido. But I have a different view.

I am 27 years old, but apparently my libido can’t compare with when I was 20 years old. I was just in the early age of 20s, when stimulated by strong porn, that I can ejaculate 6 or 7 times a night. I need longer time to ejaculate than last time, nevertheless, the last time I almost can’t ejaculate out.

Once I was very moved by a kiss in American TV show, I only ejaculated 4 times a night, but it last a whole week, until the next week the next episode showed on. I think fantasies are really helped. I totally ejaculated 28 times a week and the consequence is also bad, and I nearly go to bathroom 20 times a day. But this experience is very exciting. I never regret for that. Because after a week, I cover back to normal.

Nowadays, I almost ejaculate once a night. I don’t know what will happen in my 30 years old or 40 years old, but I think can’t be stronger any more than 7 times a night. That is really my max, and I can’t do that in my 27 years old, even though 40 years old.

I hope I can ejaculate once a week, when I am 80 years old. I am not kidding.

Women have two balls as homologous to the male two testes?

2011-04-24T04:28:00.000-07:00

Frankly speaking, I am not so sure there are two balls in female Labia majora as homologous to testes in male scrotum. Maybe they are just lumps or something, but I really can touch them. The right one is bigger than left one and its diameter is about 5 mm. They can be moved slightly, when I play with them. They may change a bit in size, when I am aroused. I think they are the key that my ejaculation is so different from other women. No research or article has mentioned them in any way, even no one trusts me.

I call them X- balls

Female ejaculation---liquid from urethra?

2011-04-17T05:10:00.000-07:00

Current theory claims that female orgasm is ejaculating a lot of liquid from urethra. These are all nonsense. They even did not understand what the female orgasm is. Some women had urinary incontinence during the intercourse, because of the strong hit. But all people thought that was female orgasm. When today too many people so-called professors are studying in brain nerve during such a fake orgasm, I feel very sad.

I never never ejaculate like that way during my ten years of experience. I have no fluid expelled through the urethra, even a little not at all. In my ejaculation, I feel something gush out of my body, when I stand up; I can just feel a little mucus out of my vagina.

After I want to ejaculation, before I see porn, I usually have to pee first. Because if I am aroused by porn, I can't pee any more and if I don’t want to ejaculate fast, I should have to pee, if I just want to have a ejaculation for good sleep or release my body, I should hold a pee, in order to ejaculation as fast as I can. But whatever I pee or not before I start, I always should have a pee after I ejaculation, although I make myself empty before.

This pee after my ejaculation is little different from normal. I can’ pee strongly and easy like usual. I should wait some seconds to pee. I can obviously feel some switch in my body should be changed before I pee out.

These are my body language, lots of things I can’t express with English.

Premature ejaculation-A real disease or named by people?

2011-04-13T09:24:00.000-07:00

Premature ejaculation (PE) is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. Premature ejaculation is also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax, or early ejaculation. Masters and Johnson defines PE as the condition in which a man ejaculates before his sex partner achieves orgasm, in more than fifty percent of their sexual encounters. Other sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters. Self reported surveys report up to 75% of men ejaculate within 10 minutes of penetration.

These are definitions by Wiki. Unfortunately I don’t agree with that, because this premise all depend on that women are hard to satisfy and need long time to ejaculation. What if the premise is wrong, absolutely the conclusion is wrong. I don’t think premature ejaculation is a real disease. If that, I think I do have PE too.

The time is not a big deal for me whatever in physical or psychological. 1minute or 10 minutes both are OK; the consequences are in same way. Frankly speaking, many times I don’t want do it for long time, and I just need to ejaculate, and I just need release, so I don’t want to waste so much time for that same purpose. Sometimes I just started doing a few, but I can’t help myself, and I nearly ejaculated, but I didn’t want to ejaculate so fast, so I had to stop it and let myself had a break. But sometime I stop it too late; the spasms had spread to my whole body. I must use all my body strength to grind for increasing that feeling. If I didn’t do that, I also ejaculated. I can’t control it, if I begin to ejaculate.

Once I was so aroused, I ejaculated 6 or 7 times a night. First time I needed 2 minutes to ejaculation, after a few minutes, I found I was aroused and I can do it again, but this time I used 5 minutes to finish it. And so on, the next time needed more time than previous one. Last time I almost can't ejaculate and I nearly use 30 minute to finish it.

Maybe I have premature ejaculation; maybe it is time to change your traditional idea.

Female multiple orgasms -A beautiful lie

2011-04-11T10:06:00.000-07:00

Almost all researches about female orgasm have claimed that women can have multiple orgasms, but in my experience, I never have multiple orgasms.

Every time I orgasm lasts for a few seconds (normally not over ten), I try my best to grind my pubis to the bed backwards and forwards. After ejaculation I am very tired and feel sleep immediately. I just roll over and I can get into sleep in seconds. I become unresponsive to sexual stimulation and cannot begin to build up another excitement phase until some period of time has elapsed, maybe some minutes, some hours, or some days. In my opinion I think in female orgasm brain also release some special hormones as same as male. We just don’t know right now.

I used to make love with my boyfriend, and I had experienced that so-called multiple orgasms. Indeed I got some pleasure in that multiple orgasms, but I got nothing and am still aroused after that, and I just want to pee during that so-called multiple orgasms. I tried to make some changes. I made him hold still, I control the rhythm. I lay on my back and put my legs together and used my pubis towards the root of his penis backwards and forwards. Then after a few minutes, I got my ejaculation-body spasms. I remembered I only said “I am so sleepy, I can’t continue, you do it yourself.”

So-called female multiple orgasms is just a pleasure, definitely not an orgasm. Multiple orgasms depend on the male penetration into vagina. When men thrust fast and strong, women would think it is an orgasm; when men thrust slowly, women would think I have experienced an orgasm; when men thrust fast again, they think it is second orgasm. But unfortunately these are not real orgasm. That may be why women want men make love as long as possible, in order to make women get orgasms as many as possible.

What poor women always count own happiness on someone else!

I don’t love porn, but I need to see it

2011-04-09T03:00:00.000-07:00

Today I want to talk about porn in my life. Lots of my female colleagues don’t like to see porn, but they at least saw once before, because their boyfriends or husbands love to see porn. They are all confused why they love to see porn so much, but nearly all women think porn is boring and ridiculous. When I told them I also saw porn and reserve hundreds of them, they were shocked. I was not going to say anything, because I can’t explain to them that I don’t love to see it, but I need to see it.

Porn takes very important role in my life. When my body gives me a signal to want to ejaculation, I usually see porn before I do it. Porn can make me aroused and make me into sex fantasy. I can feel some changes in my below, nerve impulses very strong as same resonance as heartbeats, then I know I am ready for ejaculation. I start my perpetual motion unconsciously, until I get that about 10 seconds spasms. I like to ejaculation at the same time with the man in porn, but mostly I can’t do that, I usually ejaculate in advance, I finish it nearly into 2 minutes, then I immediately lose my interest in sex.

I never addicted to porn. There is one and only one purpose I see porn, ejaculation. When I have done it, I close the porn video immediately, whatever the man in it ejaculation or not, I don’t care, because I have another important thing to do-sleep. I like to see new porn, because old porn I have seen is hard to make me arousal again. I see this porn today, I ejaculate once today. I see another porn tomorrow, I ejaculate again tomorrow.

In one sentence, I need to see porn very much.

History always be right, until not---Survival of fittest’ is disputed

2011-04-06T08:14:00.000-07:00

Today I saw an old news “Survival of fittest’ is disputed” Charles Darwin may have been wrong when he argued that competition was the major driving force of evolution. But new research identifies the availability of "living space", rather than competition, as being of key importance for evolution. Space is the final frontier for evolution.

History is always going forward，but the women are still living in a lie-G spot. I never never give up, even if no one understands me in the world. I will keep on revealing the mystery of female orgasm, until the truth about the matter has come to light.

I have last one chance---Shere Hite.

I have a secret

2011-04-01T08:18:00.000-07:00

I am a girl and I have a secret, since I was 11 or 12 years old. I never told it to anyone, including my best friends or my mother. I had a very high sex drive, when I saw some porn. I can felt a pulse in my vulva, and I felt very strong urges to do something. No one teach me what to do, it is instinct by my nature. I lay down bed on my face, and made my vulva rubbed against bed backwards and forwards, until I got a spasm, it always last about 10 seconds. After that, I lost my interest in sex immediately and I felt sleepy very very much. Usually I roll over and go to sleep right away without any cleanness. This game has been with me for over a decade. I nearly have to do it once a day. Sometimes I am alone in my house, I can do several times one day. Once I did it 28 times a week, because I saw the kiss scene by two people in an American TV. I was moved by them, by their love, their true love. I did it 4 times every night, lasted whole 1 week, because the next episode only showed in the next week. Subsequently in the second week, I go to toilet 20 times a day, and more seriously I peed little and without any force. I was not worried for a long time, because the third week I almost cover back.

I write my experience to so-called sexologists, but they treat me like a shit. Even they tell me maybe it is a lump or tumor, when I say I can touch little balls in my labia majora.

Oh, my fucking God. Why are they so adamant? They even never give me a chance to show them. They treated what I said like bullshit.

Before Copernicus proposed heliocentric, all people thought earth was the center of the universal. Two guys wanted to build a thing called an airplane. Ridiculous, right? Are these all science fictions?

All I am asking is for those experts to have the tiniest bit of vision.

God bless me!

The liquid from my ejaculation is examined under a microscope

2011-03-24T09:56:00.000-07:00

I do some research on my ejaculation liquid. The liquid is examined under a microscope. I can clearly see that there are so many cells in my liquid. I don’t know what they are? I read some books maybe Red blood cell, but I don’t think so, because my liquid is not red, neither yellow nor white, it looks like egg whites. The last 7 photos are stained by Typan Blue. It is shown that The number of dead cells is much larger than the number of living cells. My major is not biology. What about time? These cells come from the vagina ejaculation are dead, or because I waited a few hours of observation.

Who can give me some advice on my research?

Yesterday I was pleased to see a news

2011-03-23T08:22:00.000-07:00

Washington Post-ABC poll shows most Americans are okay with gay marriage. More than half of Americans say it should be legal for gays and lesbians to marry, a first in nearly a decade of polls by ABC News and The Washington Post. This milestone result caps a dramatic, long-term shift in public attitudes. From a low of 32 percent in a 2004 survey of registered voters, support for gay marriage has grown to 53 percent today. Forty-four percent are opposed, down 18 points from that 2004 survey.

I think I should really do something to support that poll.

Love is love. If you love some body, you should love his/her soul. You want to make your soul into his/ soul, you are willing to do anything for them.

Sex is sex. The purpose is just last about 10 seconds ejaculation, whatever men or women. It is an instinct.

I am going to research my theory, until the truth is open to the world.

Don’t be jealous of men for penis. Because you have the same.

2011-03-20T06:16:00.000-07:00

I have read some reports about development of clitoris and penis. Clitoris is considered as homologous to the male penis. My major is not biology, but I have some different views.

I don’t think clitoris is homologous to penis, I think clitoris is just homologous to male glans, not penis. The vagina is just as homologous to penis body. Female get pleasure only by clitoris, just as male get pleasure only by glans not the penis body. That mainly because people pay much attention to vagina firstly and clitoris secondly. People ignore an important organ---the labia majora. I think the labia majora is homologous to male scrotum. There are also two little balls in, like testes in scrotum. The female labia minora is homologous to male prepuce to protect female clitoris.

another vertion of my paper, a friend of mine help me to correct the grammar

2011-01-08T01:27:00.001-08:00

Break the mystery of female orgasm

The female orgasm has been a mystery to us for centuries, all around the world. So far, there has not been any qualitative conclusion about the G-spot, vagina orgasm and clitoris orgasm in modern sexology, although too many scholars like psychologists, physiologists, anatomists, sociologists have studied female orgasm through theory, experiments, investigation and questionnaires. In recent decades, female sexual dysfunction has received growing national attention. Fortunately, people have reached an agreement that orgasm is a normal sexual function, whether you’re a man or a woman. I will explain to you the orgasmic differences and similarities between both men and women in this report. I will also propose a new perspective to query the traditional views about the G-spot, urethra ejaculation, multiple orgasms and the so-called female orgasm. Finally, I will conclude that female ejaculation is the same as male ejaculation but not as its been previously reported. I believe my findings will intrigue all women and men just the same and I encourage you to forward my findings to all your family members, friends and associates.

What exactly is an orgasm and does female orgasm really exist? Let’s dissect the men for a minute. They have said that during their orgasms, they ejaculate fluid out of their penis' during the final stage of sexual stimulation. For many preceding centuries, a belief was adopted with the notion that ejaculation is a unique privilege for men only. In contrast, many women have emphasized the importance of orgasmic experiences but no one can identify these feelings clearly. Why is it that women experience various types of female orgasms oppose to their male counterparts? Firstly, women don’t obtain orgasms in the traditional sense, they gain pleasure. Pleasure depends on a lot of subjective factors such as time and mood, but orgasm is an objective physiological phenomenon in which its rhythm is not controlled by human feelings. Secondly, women can ejaculate as easily as men. I will explain in detail about the female orgasm in chronological order to clarify the differences and similarities between male and female.

Foreplay. This is the most common word in the study of female orgasm. It’s been overtly stated that men think about sex in 15-second intervals. Women, however, think having sex is more like a chore and are least likely to initiate sex with their partner. It has also been said that foreplay is gender-based. It serves as a purpose for women only. It is also a common misconception, nonetheless! When your senses are aroused by an external stimulus, such as porn films or fictions, you will experience physiological responses from the nerve endings and nerve conduction systems. First, the body is stimulated through visual and/or auditory processes. Then, it travels through the afferent nerve system to the brain, and finally, it affects your genitals area by the efferent nerve system. This process can take less than one second flat. Additionally, a liquid secretion from your vagina is probable but not necessary in order to achieve an orgasm. It is essential to feel excited and want to ejaculate subjectively. Most women don’t accomplish this because they have never experienced a real orgasm and within time, they lose this physiological function. This is the first and primitive obstacle in preventing female ejaculation and honestly, it is a really hard thing to change.

We have reached to a consensus that male orgasms need a series of continuing stimulations until an ejaculation has been achieved. On the other hand, female orgasms are intermittent and often multiplied during a sexual encounter. I completely disagree with this conclusion and I will explain to you as to why. The so-called female multiple orgasm does not exist! Instead, it’s simply a series of pleasure many women hope to enjoy. A true female orgasm needs continuous stimulation until ejaculation, in which feelings are spread throughout her body like an electric current, accompanied by heart acceleration and body relaxation. Women may even wish to slow down and take nerve breaks to prevent premature ejaculation and although this may extend time, it is not necessary. Most importantly, the last ten seconds during ejaculation has the highest significance in both men and women and everything else is just a pathway towards it. Another phenomenon about premature ejaculation for men, I find difficult to agree with. You will ejaculate fast if you have strong reactions to the sexual stimuli because your nerves in that area are particularly sensitive to ejaculate. Women need a long time to achieve orgasm and are unable to achieve vaginal orgasm because their partner can not maintain arousal long enough to bring them to that point. Unfortunately these premises are not tenable. Women can also ejaculate quickly, in just 1 to 2 minutes or less! This awkward situation, all thanks to Freud, the father of psycho-analysis, have made people believe that vaginal orgasms were what mature women experienced and clitoral orgasms were what young women experienced. His theory classified female orgasms as clitoral and vaginal orgasm (G-spot) until recently, since the G-spot has not corroborated by any anatomical evidence in modern sexology. Perhaps it never existed in the first place? I’m not sure. I question how one be certain of having a vaginal orgasm. On the contrary, the clitoral orgasm does indeed exist, and can lead to ejaculation every time.

Another misunderstanding about female orgasm is where the fluid comes from. According to various literatures I have researched, orgasmic secretions (fluids) stem from the urethra. If you’ve ever watched female porn stars squirt fluid across the room, it’s easy to assume this. However, the truth is, your eyes are playing tricks on you. Fact: this fluid is coming from the vagina instead. The quantity is less than that of males albeit, but your vagina is certain to feel something during those last ten seconds of ejaculation. If you wondered what expelled out of that porn star’s urethra, it is called urine, plain and simple. Women are incontinent when their bladders are squeezed. In terms of the vagina, its fluid is colorless, odorless and viscous liquid, less than one milliliter. Another note I’d like to mention when watching a pornographic film, I noticed the women always moaned from the beginning to the end of their “script”. The fact is, the female moan is incontinently in last phase of ejaculation, just like the male.

Passion. When ejaculation has been achieved, most men will lose passion to their partners immediately, also known as the roll-over-and-sleep syndrome. Women are often left dissatisfied and will either complain to their partners (or friends) or suppress their urges as if nothing happened. Why are men and women so different? It’s because the woman didn't have a real orgasm afterall. A woman will endure the roll-over-and-sleep syndrome just like any man but only if she’s had a real orgasm. They will then enter a rest period; become unresponsive to sexual stimulation and will be unable to get into another phase until after some period of time has elapsed. The length of that rest period varies on many factors such as age, health and individual sexual desire. It may take anywhere between a few minutes to a few days. It is also impossible for men and women to reach orgasms at the same time so stop with this illusion immediately or you will be a receptacle forever. Who wants to ejaculate and who wants to control the rhythm? A woman will also have symptoms such as frequency and urgency of micturition and soreness of the waist after ejaculation. She will not be able to ejaculate after 6 or 7 times in frequency but will recover after having a rest for one to two weeks. Surprisingly, the kidney plays an important role in the orgasm of both the male and female. Why, I do not know at this time.

So why does the female orgasm perplex so many men and women for so many years? The fundamental reason is because the attention is paid to the vagina and is believed that if men obtain orgasm through the female vagina, then the women should also obtain orgasm from the male penis. In fact, everyone has ignored a very important organ, the female balls, located on the insides of the labia majora, about 0.3 cm in diameter. Many women aren’t even aware they have them and anatomists have neglected them as well. Why? Firstly, it’s because they are hidden on the inside instead of being exposed on the outside like the male testicles. Secondly, according to the use and disuse theory, most women never use its function and they are atrophic little by little. Finally and importantly, living in a male-dominated world, men don’t want to think of women possessing the same homologue in their bodies, whereas women have become admirers to the male penis. Maybe it's just my opinion. Next time you’re ejaculating, pay attention to those hard little balls inside you, as this finding will be the strongest evidence to subvert all previous theories about female orgasm.

Love vs. sex. Women often say that men are the sexual beasts who think with their penises instead of their heads, whereas women can ejaculate just as easily. Love is love and sex is sex. You can fall in love with whom you desire, despite age, race, gender, or religion. Sex is just about achieving a 10 second ejaculation! There is no relationship between love and sex.

Menstruation vs. ejaculation. In my opinion, one can not enhance or prevent the other. They are not directly related. Women can ejaculate during their menstrual cycle and the only consequence of this is with the added “bonus” of bleeding during the ovulation period.

Urination vs. ejaculation. Frankly speaking, I don’t think there’s a direct link between them, well, maybe indirectly? Many women describe their ejaculation experiences like a need to pee on their partners. Truth is, the female can not urinate at all when she’s aroused. Her ejaculation will come quickly if she holds the urine in, on the contrary if she urinates before sex.

Reproduction vs. ejaculation. The female plays an important role in reproduction. Their vagina is used as a receptacle means to give birth to a new life. What they fail to enjoy is the real orgasm of ejaculation. A woman can get pregnant without herself ejaculating and that I haven’t been able to figure out why.

This paper leads us into the mysterious castle of female orgasm. We've spent centuries looking for its entrance, however, just recently we've been able to open its doors and are eagerly waiting to discover the unknown. Here are some examples has come to mind: the composition of the liquid; whether fluid contains female germ cells like sperm in semen; some other genital organs still unknown; the existence of female prostate; the mechanism of female ejaculation; and maybe if ejaculation can help fight against breast cancer, uterine cancer or menopause syndrome. I suspect these are some of the secrets hidden in this castle, waiting for us to expose one by one.

This has been a great ongoing project. Not only for the many scientists who’ve been involved with this research, but for all people world wide. The universe has its own laws filled with unclear understandings of our humanity. People have questioned about the female orgasm during the 19th century. Now, let us try our best to get the answers we’ve been looking for. Let’s start with the truth.